Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 12:27 pm
Hi there
I'm looking for some help and a way forward. I currently have debts at just over £24k and am in arrears to the tune of at least 4 months on the three loans that form the majority of the debt.
In the past 5 years i've had a strong gambling addiction which i have only come to terms with over the last few months. I'm getting counselling and advice on the way forward.
I spoke to debtfreedirect a few months back and they seemed all to eager to go for an IVA - i sent my details and personal info back including 3 months statements which showed some gambling deposits on my main current account.
They promptly called me back and said something about my rent being too low for living with parents and my disposable income being too high to propose the IVA. They suggested a debt managment plan but never called back.
I have since contacted a new company or have been a little more up front. They said the gambling would affect the IVA proposal and that i should wait for at least 3 months before proposing it, provided my accounts remain clear of gambling.
I have been away from work for the past 8 months due to depression and stress and am only now building up to returning.
Part of my debts are now being passed onto recovery companies who are bombarding me with letters for repayment.
I am at a real loss of where to turn to next - they have suggested a debt management plan but i have heard that the first payment normally goes straight into their pockets.
The added kick in the balls is that i still live at home and my parents to not know the real extent of my debt. [V]
Where to next ?
I'm looking for some help and a way forward. I currently have debts at just over £24k and am in arrears to the tune of at least 4 months on the three loans that form the majority of the debt.
In the past 5 years i've had a strong gambling addiction which i have only come to terms with over the last few months. I'm getting counselling and advice on the way forward.
I spoke to debtfreedirect a few months back and they seemed all to eager to go for an IVA - i sent my details and personal info back including 3 months statements which showed some gambling deposits on my main current account.
They promptly called me back and said something about my rent being too low for living with parents and my disposable income being too high to propose the IVA. They suggested a debt managment plan but never called back.
I have since contacted a new company or have been a little more up front. They said the gambling would affect the IVA proposal and that i should wait for at least 3 months before proposing it, provided my accounts remain clear of gambling.
I have been away from work for the past 8 months due to depression and stress and am only now building up to returning.
Part of my debts are now being passed onto recovery companies who are bombarding me with letters for repayment.
I am at a real loss of where to turn to next - they have suggested a debt management plan but i have heard that the first payment normally goes straight into their pockets.
The added kick in the balls is that i still live at home and my parents to not know the real extent of my debt. [V]
Where to next ?