I used to deal in cash all the time and each week withdrew the weekly food, fuel and extra money out ..... Whatever was left each week was added to a pot for nights out .... A few pence here and now soon adds up !
Please read the blogs - it does get easier but you cannot neglect yourself to give to the children to ease your guilt. It took me a couple of years to realise that. They need a happy mummy more than things. I know it isn't easy to do, but do treat yourself to a night out - we have even walked to the park sharing a bag of chips as a treat or taken a picnic although it is not the right time of year now! We have also sat in the pub playing cards with a pint of juice each. Things will get better - it took us two years to come to terms with things.
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