However, last night hubby returns from work and tells me his boss came out to him and asked him for a tenner to go towards a colleagues retirement present, well this I kind of understand, however as a lot of you will appreciate a tenner is a tenner and can do a lot for us in IVA's/DMP's or bankruptcy.
Next we're having a do at this place and it's £20 a head do I put you and your Mrs down as coming?....he don't think as quick as me and guess what the sting was it's on the 29th! £40 for a do and £10 for a present, bring me £50 tomorrow!....
Excuse me while I go get it from my secret stash of money! We've managed the tenner and he's going in to lie to him today but it's so awkward for him as they've cut his workforce to 6 workers and he's lucky to still be in employment but we can't warrant £50 on a night out and to be fair if I could I would begrudge every penny as if I was spending that money I'd want to choose who I was spending the time with!
I've been up since 4am again worrying and fretting about this as per usual! Hubby sleeping like a baby!
Just focus on the IVA won't last forever, you've overcome plenty of challenges so far and survived, so don't let having to say no to a night out with hubbys work colleagues worry you. I bet hubby didn't want to go anyway [;)]
Other people have far more serious things to worry about than me but at the time when you're lonely and it's 4am it does seem a big deal honest.
Cyber hug to all my lovely forum friends for support and guidance always appreciated.
I'm off to work again soon till 5pm and then tomorrow I'm working straight through till 8pm with a drive home it'll be probably 9pm when I get in as we've got an open evening for potential students for September intake...I actually enjoy marketing which I why I volunteer and when our new college is built in my home town I plan on trying for a place in marketing and taking some courses/qualifications in it maybe.
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