I am completely drained

[New start]

I know i haven't been sleeping that well and i know i was really anxious this morning but i did not think that this is how i would feel this evening.

I expected to be on a total high but all i feel is totally drained. I actually fell asleep for about an hour earlier which i never do!

Not sure what i expected.

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[Shining]

I think it's probably the relief of acceptance you're experiencing.

You're on a new stage of your life now and I hope it runs very smoothly for you. All the best. x

[Skippy]

Lesley's right, it's the relief.

Slightly different, but after I went BR I ended up in bed with a migraine - I think it was after all the stress and worry.

Good luck with your IVA x

[Julie]

Hi, as the others have said, you've been on an emotional rollercoaster and bound to feel drained.

We're all here for you xx

[kallis3]

Totally agree with the above posts. It affects all of us differently.

You will settle down and begin to enjoy life again without the stress of worrying about creditors hassling you.

[Jan01]

I sobbed for what seemed like hours after our IVA was accepted, it took a few days to sink in that we could move forward. Although I was so happy that my debts were sorted and no more letter or phone calls there were days when life seemed too much.
Jan

[kallis3]

The one thing I didn't do was cry. I was just so relieved that I can't describe the feeling.

[Shining]

I cried when I spoke to Melanie for the first time, I think that was through shame, my own shame, Melanie put me at ease and we could eventually continue the conversation. x

[kallis3]

I'm afraid I made hubby phone Payplan initially. I was the one who took the acceptance phone call though and I can just remember saying "Thank God for that" once I had put the phone down.