I am completely drained

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Post by New start » Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:11 pm
I know i haven't been sleeping that well and i know i was really anxious this morning but i did not think that this is how i would feel this evening.

I expected to be on a total high but all i feel is totally drained. I actually fell asleep for about an hour earlier which i never do!

Not sure what i expected.

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Post by Shining » Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:13 pm
I think it's probably the relief of acceptance you're experiencing.

You're on a new stage of your life now and I hope it runs very smoothly for you. All the best. x
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Post by Skippy » Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:17 pm
Lesley's right, it's the relief.

Slightly different, but after I went BR I ended up in bed with a migraine - I think it was after all the stress and worry.

Good luck with your IVA x
 
 

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Post by Julie » Wed Jul 21, 2010 8:12 pm
Hi, as the others have said, you've been on an emotional rollercoaster and bound to feel drained.

We're all here for you xx
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Wed Jul 21, 2010 9:02 pm
Totally agree with the above posts. It affects all of us differently.

You will settle down and begin to enjoy life again without the stress of worrying about creditors hassling you.
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Post by Jan01 » Wed Jul 21, 2010 9:43 pm
I sobbed for what seemed like hours after our IVA was accepted, it took a few days to sink in that we could move forward. Although I was so happy that my debts were sorted and no more letter or phone calls there were days when life seemed too much.
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Post by kallis3 » Wed Jul 21, 2010 9:48 pm
The one thing I didn't do was cry. I was just so relieved that I can't describe the feeling.
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Post by Shining » Thu Jul 22, 2010 7:36 am
I cried when I spoke to Melanie for the first time, I think that was through shame, my own shame, Melanie put me at ease and we could eventually continue the conversation. x
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Post by kallis3 » Thu Jul 22, 2010 7:54 am
I'm afraid I made hubby phone Payplan initially. I was the one who took the acceptance phone call though and I can just remember saying "Thank God for that" once I had put the phone down.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
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