Good luck with your journey Andy. Do make sure you keep us posted on the progress of your IVA proposal - your with a good team, and IP in Melanie. This forum is very therapeutic, and good for letting off steam.
Thanks for your concern - several people have checked with me recently that things are still ok. It's not a very common name, so got a few people quite worried.
Just shows how bad things can get for some people - thoughts are with all their family right now.