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Post by kallis3 » Sun May 16, 2010 3:44 pm
Totally agree Julie.
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Post by Skippy » Sun May 16, 2010 3:48 pm
Thanks for posting again thefsg, and I hope your IVA carries on successfully, and your wife can come to an arrangement with the creditor involved.

Hopefully lil.me will read this and post an apology to Mel.
 
 

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Post by MelanieGiles » Sun May 16, 2010 4:09 pm
I am glad that this matter has been clarified. The posters wife was not and is not insolvent, and out of personally owned assets has always been able to repay the debt in full as was the intention from day 1.
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Post by Julie » Sun May 16, 2010 4:29 pm
Just glad thefsg has given us the full picture. Must have been frustrating to have been wrongly judged Mel!

Also,thefsg has raised a good point re: joint debts/accounts, which hopefully will help other posters.
 
 

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Post by Adam Davies » Sun May 16, 2010 4:38 pm
Hi
I think the lesson from this thread is to not make assumptions based on the info provided as there is nearly always two sides to the story.
I understand that lil.me was commenting on the info supplied but given the fact that the IP was known it was not appropriate to state that it was "poor advice bordering on misselling".
The original poster has confirmed that they were more than happy with Mel and her team and there was no misselling
Lil.me please contact me directly to draft an apology before posting again
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Post by MelanieGiles » Sun May 16, 2010 4:45 pm
It all comes with the territory Julie.
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Post by Julie » Sun May 16, 2010 4:49 pm
Unfairly so on a forum that you so kindly give free advice too, in my opinion Mel.

I get it all the time, working in HR [:D]

I hope lil.me is as quick to apologise as he/she was to judge.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Sun May 16, 2010 6:04 pm
I hope so too.
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Post by kallis3 » Sun May 16, 2010 6:05 pm
Unlikely to happen though Julie as he/she has been locked out of the forum.
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Post by Adam Davies » Sun May 16, 2010 6:13 pm
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The poster has only been locked out until they contact me regarding an apology over the "this is really a case of poor advice bordering on misselling" given the fact that the original poster has confirmed that this is not the case.
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Post by kallis3 » Sun May 16, 2010 6:30 pm
I hope they do Andy. We do recognise that posters have differing opinions, but I will be surprised if they do come back and apologise.

I will stand by to be corrected if they do.
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Post by plasticdaft » Mon May 17, 2010 11:26 am
I assume that Mel,you wouldnt advise an IVA for one half of a couple if there were joints debts then?? Unless the non insolvent partner was able to pay off the debt in full as in the case mentioned?

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Post by size5 » Fri May 21, 2010 9:26 am
Somehow, I have completely missed this thread, until now.

I wouldn't presume to comment on this case, but I get very annoyed when people use the phrase "mis-sold IVA". To me, there is no such thing. It is a very rare case indeed where there is only one solution to a debt problem, usually there are 2 or 3 roads that an individual can take and in the end it all boils down to personal choice. I know of no reputable IP firm who "sells" IVA's, we simply comply with clients written instructions once they have made their own mind up.

I accept that in the not too distant past certain sectors of our industry, and certain people/firms within those sectors, have not been whiter than white, but let me assure all posters and readers that the industry as a whole is working very hard indeed to eradicate any problems within it, and the days of the cowboys are very much numbered.

Interestingly, the most common use of the phrase "mis-sold IVA" comes from the likes of the IVA Council and their ilk, i.e bankruptcy assist firms, who really do make a fortune out of very vulnerable people whilst providing them with very little service at all, unlike the very much regulated world of IP's and IVA's. A very bitter paradox indeed methinks.

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Post by kallis3 » Fri May 21, 2010 9:31 am
Well said Size5.
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