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Post by MrsKnight » Fri Sep 24, 2010 2:59 pm
All in the title of this post [:I] BUT!

Ive sent in hubbys wage slips as requested over 2 weeks ago (recorded) n normally had them back by now.
So its sent me into thinking silly, n thinking something is wrong. Ive phoned IVA company n they said yes they have had them but not showing on system yet, n I asked if everything is ok - yes.
But Ive always felt alittle uneasy with them, as Ive had alot of conflicting advise in the past, so Im still not at ease. N then Im saying to myself, you have done everything right, not missed any payments, paid over 50% of any overtime & informed them of the very small increase in income, which they wanted to leave till review, but yet Im still worrying!
I keep running every time the Postmans been to see if there is anything. I know I really do worry to much n its setting off my anxiety/panic attacks, its just there is always something saying - its gona go wrong.
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Post by kallis3 » Fri Sep 24, 2010 3:14 pm
I'm sure everything is fine Lyns. You've done what you've got to do.

They are probably just busy at the moment.

If anything was wrong I am sure they would have been in touch by now.
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Post by MrsKnight » Fri Sep 24, 2010 4:24 pm
Thank you Jan - Im sure it is, n Im stressing for nothing.
I think because we are getting to the half way point , I would be really upset for it to go wrong now. I just keep thinking we got so far after so many problems - I really wana complete it successfully!
A lottery win would be fab!
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Post by lukeofyorkshire » Fri Sep 24, 2010 4:40 pm
I'm sue it will all be fine [:)]

I have my ticket for Saturday as well (:D)
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Post by kallis3 » Fri Sep 24, 2010 4:41 pm
You and I are at the same stage and I know how you feel about not wanting it to fail now.

We will have a big hurdle to get over next year when hubby becomes an OAP and so his income will drop.

I shall cross that bridge when I get to it though!
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Post by MrsKnight » Fri Sep 24, 2010 4:57 pm
Thanks Luke n good luck ;0)

N Thank you Jan - I hope every works out when you cross that hurdle too.
We've gotta a few hurdles to jump through too with hubbys health deteriorating - seen specialist last week n his neck has totally fused together so he cant look over his shoulder n there is nothing they can do about it. The also found his chest expansion is starting to fuse - so they are pushing for him to be reviewed again, for the drugs that can help him, but at a cost to the NHS of 13,000 a year, its up to someone else to decide.
But hes a trooper n still gets on with his work/career n wont let it beat him.
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Post by kallis3 » Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:08 pm
I hope he manages to get his drugs sorted Lyns. If he has problems then perhaps a phone call to the local tv station might help - it seems to in the Midlands. Compared with the cost of some drug treatments then £13k is nothing.

Full marks to him for soldiering on at work as well, it can't be easy.
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Post by lukeofyorkshire » Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:11 pm
Hubby sounds like one strong fellow, I admire people like that who just get on with it no matter what. Fingers crossed he gets his drugs (Not the illegal variety of course [;)])
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Post by MrsKnight » Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:33 pm
Thanks Luke - the prescription drugs hubby is on are just not helping anymore! N Yes he does just battle on - but gets very annoyed when his staff phone in with sniffles! N its beyond me how some of them cope, as they dont get paid for being ill!

This medication is the last drug he can take to make things better n has to be injected which is no problem to us. To say he is only 35 with 2 little boys n still has a long working life ahead of him - you would think they would want to stay active n working!
Jan if it does not go through this time - we are going to have to do something, thanks for the idea x
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