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Post by quark2008 » Thu Mar 25, 2010 5:52 pm
I let go, he comes pinging back,i push away and then i text, and he replies, i push away, he comes right back, he pushes away, i ping back,is this healthy or just a case of falling for each other , who at the same time, are terrified to lose ??? He's the first geezer i have ever trusted. He settles down to my soul when he puts me in his arms. b***** !!!!


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Post by MrsKnight » Thu Mar 25, 2010 6:13 pm
Hi Quark - hope your ok hun.

You have to do what your heart & head tells you.
I have always been one to push people away in fear of ending being rejected down the line.
I think form the sounds of reading some of your posts (sorry not got round to replying to most) that you are falling or maybe fallen already.

If hes right n good for you, let it run its course n try not to push him away, you deserve some happiness in your life x
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Post by Skippy » Thu Mar 25, 2010 6:21 pm
Quark, it sounds as though you've already fallen for each other! You need to do what you think is right, and if you're both happy together then go for it.

Dave and I broke up loads of times at the beginning, each time saying that was it, but 12 years later we're still going strong and are really happy.

If it's meant to be (and it sounds as though it could be!!!) you'll get through this xxx


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Post by Julie » Thu Mar 25, 2010 6:23 pm
Hi Quark,

Love is a funny old thing've had so much going on in your life, you don't want any more stress.

Why not enjoy the relationship and just see where it goes...stop pushing him away and relax [:)]



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Post by Shining » Thu Mar 25, 2010 7:42 pm
Echo Helen's post totally x
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