Do you currently own or rent your property ? From your questions, I would assume rent. Depending on if you qualify, with that level of debt, a DRO might be worth looking into. Details here:
https://www.stepchange.org/how-we-help/ ... lsrc=aw.ds
Life in an IVA is, for the most part, not easy, but better than battling crippling debt repayments. Your credit rating, however, will be rubbished for 6 years, which does make renting difficult --- you need to either go private or, if through an agency, offer larger deposits / rent up front and / or a guarantor. Sticking to a budget becomes a way of life if you are willing to give it a fair go --- I am 7 years 'out the other side' now and still live to my IVA budget, which allows me to save for the first time ever in my (long) adult life !
Holidays and celebrations can be worked in, if careful. For instance, I pay for Christmas with Tesco points and shopping vouchers earned by online surveys. Holidays do get relegated to 'Sun Offers' and camping for a while, but are doable.
Speak to more than one insolvency firm, and, being self employed, try to find one that is experienced with self-employment, as the usual 'one size fits all' offered by the 'IVA Factory' firms might come unravelled !
My opinions are merely that .. opinions based on experience. Always seek professional advice.
IVA Completed 23rd July 2013 .... C.C. 10th January 2014