Have a look at my post:
http://www.iva.co.uk/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=24482
Be under no illusions, BR is no easy option.
I think you should ask for copies of the original credit agreement and see if it complies with the CCA 1974. In this act there are prescribed terms which the agreement has to comply with.
All I am saying is that I - like you were in an IVA, the main creditor didnt accept her offer of an IVA and she ended up going bankrupt as well.
I know only too well how much of a struggle it is, and given hindsight, would have tried to get some of these debts removed because they were unenforceable.
have a look at my thread as well.
BANKS NEED NO MERCY!!!