Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 10:33 pm
Hi there, where do I start!
I have debts of 37k and was made unemployed recently which made things much worse because although i had struggled to make payments before that, I suddenly just did not have the money to do it. I was advised to pay my 6 creditors a monthly sum of £5 which I have done for the past 3 months. They have never been off my back to the extent of recieving up tp 8 phone calls a day. I have now changed my phone number because I just could not bear to be in the house anymore listening to the phone constantly ring and explain my circumstances repeatedly. I have just started work this month and have enlisted a company called clearstart to negoitiate an IVA for me. I do feel a little confused because I'm still not convinced it is the right road to go down. I have five young children and a husband who stays at home to look after them whilst I work to support. I feel that the budget that has been set out for me is not realistic because it does not leave much over for birthdays, christmas,kids shoes etc.
I am wondering if I'd be better off going bankcrupt. My main concerns about this is that the debts are in my name and the mortgage is in joint names with my husband. We have equity of about 15k, so what will happen to our home. The thought of being homeless with 5 kids under9 is really scary.
Also ive read that they can take your pension from you. I have an employers pension I have payed into for 17 years now and although its likely to be another 28 years before I retire I was wondering if thay can get a percentage of that.
I have also read that you can be made by the court to pay a percentage of your wages to your creditors after your bk. This could mean you are in the same position as having an IVA around your neck?
What shall I do? I feel that all this is ruining my life and that of my family and I'm to scared to discuss it with my family as they will be so disappointed in me for getting into this situation in the first place [:0]
Thanks Jx
I have debts of 37k and was made unemployed recently which made things much worse because although i had struggled to make payments before that, I suddenly just did not have the money to do it. I was advised to pay my 6 creditors a monthly sum of £5 which I have done for the past 3 months. They have never been off my back to the extent of recieving up tp 8 phone calls a day. I have now changed my phone number because I just could not bear to be in the house anymore listening to the phone constantly ring and explain my circumstances repeatedly. I have just started work this month and have enlisted a company called clearstart to negoitiate an IVA for me. I do feel a little confused because I'm still not convinced it is the right road to go down. I have five young children and a husband who stays at home to look after them whilst I work to support. I feel that the budget that has been set out for me is not realistic because it does not leave much over for birthdays, christmas,kids shoes etc.
I am wondering if I'd be better off going bankcrupt. My main concerns about this is that the debts are in my name and the mortgage is in joint names with my husband. We have equity of about 15k, so what will happen to our home. The thought of being homeless with 5 kids under9 is really scary.
Also ive read that they can take your pension from you. I have an employers pension I have payed into for 17 years now and although its likely to be another 28 years before I retire I was wondering if thay can get a percentage of that.
I have also read that you can be made by the court to pay a percentage of your wages to your creditors after your bk. This could mean you are in the same position as having an IVA around your neck?
What shall I do? I feel that all this is ruining my life and that of my family and I'm to scared to discuss it with my family as they will be so disappointed in me for getting into this situation in the first place [:0]
Thanks Jx