Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 6:53 am
Hi,
Really hoping I can get some help here as I am stuck in a rut.
I am 31 years old and still living with my mother as I am to scared to apply for any sort of credit.
I managed to get myself into quite a bit of debt. Most of it through a shelf company but a bit personal to. I was only a kid at the time and worked for a company who had big promises with little return. I worked on a commission basis and got brain washed by the company promising I was going to be rich. I started spending on store cards, credit cards and bank loans and before I knew it I was up to my eyeballs. I didn’t think it would be a problem as I was soon to be rich. Anyway it didn’t quite turn out the way I expected.
I started suffering from personal issues through stress and as I didn’t meet curtain targets, the company whom I was under the umbrella of sack me. My partner and myself went to citizen’s advice and were advised to go bankrupt. In hindsight I so wish I did. Instead, through youth, ignorance and stupidity we decided to ignore them and move to Australia. This I thought was the easy way out as my wife was Australian so we buried our heads in the sand and forgot/ignored them. A few weeks later we had a major argument and split up resulting in my now x wife moving back to oz and me moving back with my mum
8 years have now passed and the only thing I have herd from the various creditors is a letter about 6 months ago asking if I live their and in total 3 phone calls asking if I am about. On all of these occasions my mum has denied knowing my where abouts. Im asking for advise on what to do as I cannot keep going on like this and im scared if I own up to them now I will be in serious problems. Friends have told me that they will be written off in 6 years but I don’t think this is the case as I have had a letter 6 months ago from a credit company and a phone call a week ago. Please somebody help. I also cannot understand why the government has not caught up with me, as some of the money was owed to them through tax and vat.
I have been working here for 8 years and have bank account and pay my tax and insurance so why are they not asking for anything? The most worrying thing is I have gone into business with someone whom I have not told of my debts, as I am ashamed and own 50% of the shares. Im worried that if and when I get caught they will be taken and I will be stuck living with my mum for the rest of my life. Any advice would be a great help.
Many thanks
Really hoping I can get some help here as I am stuck in a rut.
I am 31 years old and still living with my mother as I am to scared to apply for any sort of credit.
I managed to get myself into quite a bit of debt. Most of it through a shelf company but a bit personal to. I was only a kid at the time and worked for a company who had big promises with little return. I worked on a commission basis and got brain washed by the company promising I was going to be rich. I started spending on store cards, credit cards and bank loans and before I knew it I was up to my eyeballs. I didn’t think it would be a problem as I was soon to be rich. Anyway it didn’t quite turn out the way I expected.
I started suffering from personal issues through stress and as I didn’t meet curtain targets, the company whom I was under the umbrella of sack me. My partner and myself went to citizen’s advice and were advised to go bankrupt. In hindsight I so wish I did. Instead, through youth, ignorance and stupidity we decided to ignore them and move to Australia. This I thought was the easy way out as my wife was Australian so we buried our heads in the sand and forgot/ignored them. A few weeks later we had a major argument and split up resulting in my now x wife moving back to oz and me moving back with my mum
8 years have now passed and the only thing I have herd from the various creditors is a letter about 6 months ago asking if I live their and in total 3 phone calls asking if I am about. On all of these occasions my mum has denied knowing my where abouts. Im asking for advise on what to do as I cannot keep going on like this and im scared if I own up to them now I will be in serious problems. Friends have told me that they will be written off in 6 years but I don’t think this is the case as I have had a letter 6 months ago from a credit company and a phone call a week ago. Please somebody help. I also cannot understand why the government has not caught up with me, as some of the money was owed to them through tax and vat.
I have been working here for 8 years and have bank account and pay my tax and insurance so why are they not asking for anything? The most worrying thing is I have gone into business with someone whom I have not told of my debts, as I am ashamed and own 50% of the shares. Im worried that if and when I get caught they will be taken and I will be stuck living with my mum for the rest of my life. Any advice would be a great help.
Many thanks