Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 10:51 am
Hi there, i need some urgent advice.
my father - bless him, has agree to pay for my entire wedding next year, well as we were discussing finances he was horrified to discover i was in an IVA. id discussed with my mother and as much as i had pleaded her to not discuss with my dad, i always thought she had. well. my father sees it fit that as my husband 'to be' has brought 'our' house, my car and pays for pretty much everything- that he should give me a good start in life and clear my debt.
well i could cry with joy. the problem is my father wants to know a figure. I rang the company today to obtain. My original proposal was to pay back at figure of £16500, (£275 @ 60months) - well due to pay increase my payments moved to £300 a month.
I made my first payment in november 05 and finish nov 10. My IP has told me i would have to pay £9589.00. my offer (i think) was 0.50p to the pound. My ip told me this sum would be adjusted slighyly as fees for them would be decreased. but he could not tell me how much.
My father im sure was thinking around the £7500- £8000 mark. do u think i would be able to make a propsal of this to creditiors and this maybe accepted?
Any advices are welcome and really appreicated? im have got to tell my father this afternoon. i know that my IP is the best person to help but to be honest he wasnt that helpfull simply saying that its up to me how much i offer, he couldnt advise whether it is a good offer or not? XX
my father - bless him, has agree to pay for my entire wedding next year, well as we were discussing finances he was horrified to discover i was in an IVA. id discussed with my mother and as much as i had pleaded her to not discuss with my dad, i always thought she had. well. my father sees it fit that as my husband 'to be' has brought 'our' house, my car and pays for pretty much everything- that he should give me a good start in life and clear my debt.
well i could cry with joy. the problem is my father wants to know a figure. I rang the company today to obtain. My original proposal was to pay back at figure of £16500, (£275 @ 60months) - well due to pay increase my payments moved to £300 a month.
I made my first payment in november 05 and finish nov 10. My IP has told me i would have to pay £9589.00. my offer (i think) was 0.50p to the pound. My ip told me this sum would be adjusted slighyly as fees for them would be decreased. but he could not tell me how much.
My father im sure was thinking around the £7500- £8000 mark. do u think i would be able to make a propsal of this to creditiors and this maybe accepted?
Any advices are welcome and really appreicated? im have got to tell my father this afternoon. i know that my IP is the best person to help but to be honest he wasnt that helpfull simply saying that its up to me how much i offer, he couldnt advise whether it is a good offer or not? XX