Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 12:57 am
hello,
i have had advice from several different people (not on this forum)about the best way for me to sort my debt problems out. i owe £30,000.00 on unsecured debts (credit cards and loans).
i don't know whether i am going to try for a br, iva or dmp yet.
my biggest worry is that my partner's house could be at risk, as i have been living with her for 7 years (co-habiting) and she has lots of equalty in it. i am not on her mortgage but help to pay the bills.
she is ill and has'nt worked since april 2000 and is on incapacity benefit and she is signed off work indefinately.
i have thought about moving out and renting somewhere else to use as another address, but have been told that i could still have a beneficial interest in my partner's property.
nobody has come up with a monetry value of what my beneficial interest is, if any. if i have got any, and that it's thousands of pounds she would not be able to buy me out, or re-mortgage the house due to not working and being on long term incapacity benefit and is petrified that the or will inform her that she will have to sell her house. it is putting a tremendous amount of strain on our relationship.
we have been told that we are in a very difficult situation. we don't know which way to turn.
if anyone can give me any advice it will be much appreciated.
i have had advice from several different people (not on this forum)about the best way for me to sort my debt problems out. i owe £30,000.00 on unsecured debts (credit cards and loans).
i don't know whether i am going to try for a br, iva or dmp yet.
my biggest worry is that my partner's house could be at risk, as i have been living with her for 7 years (co-habiting) and she has lots of equalty in it. i am not on her mortgage but help to pay the bills.
she is ill and has'nt worked since april 2000 and is on incapacity benefit and she is signed off work indefinately.
i have thought about moving out and renting somewhere else to use as another address, but have been told that i could still have a beneficial interest in my partner's property.
nobody has come up with a monetry value of what my beneficial interest is, if any. if i have got any, and that it's thousands of pounds she would not be able to buy me out, or re-mortgage the house due to not working and being on long term incapacity benefit and is petrified that the or will inform her that she will have to sell her house. it is putting a tremendous amount of strain on our relationship.
we have been told that we are in a very difficult situation. we don't know which way to turn.
if anyone can give me any advice it will be much appreciated.