Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 11:02 am
I went to work last Friday after a weeks holiday and was given my P45.
I was made 'redundant'
I had been working for a small independent jewellers run by a married couple for 15 months. A few months ago they took on their 17 year old niece and it was pretty obvious the way things were going, she was doing the work I used to do while I was asked to clean the toilets.
The niece made a mistake regarding security and I was blamed for it because I am older and more responsible, even though I didn't have any supervisory responsibility.
I was then given an ultimatum, I could leave with a reference because my boss 'didn't want to have to sack me'.
I fought for my job, refused to leave, I was 30 months into my IVA, I couldn't just walk away from my job.
A couple of months passed, each morning I dreaded going into work. They were bullying me every day, I knew they wanted me out, I was fighting against it every day.
I now feel relieved in a way, I don't have to work with these people again and I don't have to fight against it.
My self confidence has taken a huge battering though, I now feel quite insecure after what has happened.
I'm trying not to panic about being unemployed. I've updated the CV, been to the job centre, got a few interviews lined up.
I've also phoned my IVA company up, explained the situation and I'm taking a payment break this month.
What worries me is some of the jobs I've applied for (in retail) have stated that credit checks may be carried out.
Ah of course, because I got myself in debt (and trying to get out of it - the whole point of an IVA) that means that I'm going to be untrustworthy and going to steal from the company!
I've been working in jewellery for the past for 4 years for two different companies, working with millions of pounds worth of diamonds every day for goodness sake!
Not really looking for any expert advise, just wanted to share my experience and would like to know if others have had disaster strike during their IVA.
I was made 'redundant'
I had been working for a small independent jewellers run by a married couple for 15 months. A few months ago they took on their 17 year old niece and it was pretty obvious the way things were going, she was doing the work I used to do while I was asked to clean the toilets.
The niece made a mistake regarding security and I was blamed for it because I am older and more responsible, even though I didn't have any supervisory responsibility.
I was then given an ultimatum, I could leave with a reference because my boss 'didn't want to have to sack me'.
I fought for my job, refused to leave, I was 30 months into my IVA, I couldn't just walk away from my job.
A couple of months passed, each morning I dreaded going into work. They were bullying me every day, I knew they wanted me out, I was fighting against it every day.
I now feel relieved in a way, I don't have to work with these people again and I don't have to fight against it.
My self confidence has taken a huge battering though, I now feel quite insecure after what has happened.
I'm trying not to panic about being unemployed. I've updated the CV, been to the job centre, got a few interviews lined up.
I've also phoned my IVA company up, explained the situation and I'm taking a payment break this month.
What worries me is some of the jobs I've applied for (in retail) have stated that credit checks may be carried out.
Ah of course, because I got myself in debt (and trying to get out of it - the whole point of an IVA) that means that I'm going to be untrustworthy and going to steal from the company!
I've been working in jewellery for the past for 4 years for two different companies, working with millions of pounds worth of diamonds every day for goodness sake!
Not really looking for any expert advise, just wanted to share my experience and would like to know if others have had disaster strike during their IVA.