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hi guys
just a little moan,cause i am fed up and upset,waiting for creditors meeting next friday morning so very anxious, doing a course at college every thursday to try and better myself, today we had an exam. practice exams all morning and the real one this afternoon, all good i was ready to go, coffe break before exam checked my phone, message from my daughter she had gone walking with her grandma and our dog, grandma fallen and broke her ankle and they were on the way to hospital, couldnt get hold of hubby so off i shot, 3 hours later and an xray we are told a bad break and she needs an op tomorrow, i feel so sorry for her she has never been in hospital before and we had to leave her bemused and doped up on morphine for the pain and all she was doing was trying to help us out.Does the saying it never rains but it pours ever scream at you.
hopefully tomorrow will bring good news.x

Abby,

So sorry to hear about your/hubbys mother. I fractured my ankle once (not as bad as a break, but painful non the less), I do hope she is feeling better soon and that the op is a success.

I take it you did not do your exam. What will happen about that?

Think positive thoughts about her and your meeting.

Sending you a big hug.

Ah I so sorry to hear that Abbey. Poor thing, I hope she's not in too much pain. I wish her a speedy recovery. X

Abby

I am so sorry that your Mother (in law?)s accident. I hope you did Ok in your exam, or didnt you take it today?

When you feel so down and beaten and there is nothing like debt to make you feel any worse about yourself, lets face it. Its so easy to feel that everything is your fault, it isnt. What more could you have done?

I think youre very strong to be able to even contemplate taking an exam when youre obviously so anxious about the meeting. I was a quivering wreck when I realised the mess I was in.

This was just an unfortumate accident, your Mom was just doing what she wanted to do, bless her heart. I am sure she is in the best hands and will be laughing about it all in a year or so time.

Take heart, your IP wouldnt be putting this forward if they didnt think it would stand a chance, give yourself a pat on the back for being able to study. Good on you, you deserve to get through it all.

I wish the best of luck both for your mothers recovery and will be sending good vibes for a positive outcome next week.

Its been a hell of a day, hasnt it? Try to relax now and believe that youre in good hands too.

thanks kallis3
no didnt do my exam, and you are right my main concern is my mum in law, hopefully out of hospital by early next week and then we can take care of her,anxiouty of the meeting am am sure will get worse as the day approaches, in fact i can think of a lot stronger words than that how i will feel, but i have to say my tutor was very reassuring and i will take the exam at a later date. and thanks hugs are always appreciated.x

Abby, things can only get better now! Perhaps pampering your mom in law during the next week or so will take your mind off your meeting a little.

Glad you can retake your exam as well.

Don't forget, we're all here for you.

just replied to kallis then read all the other posts, thanks all of you, i think you are all special and i know since i found this forum it has been the way forward for sorting our problems out, the advice you give, the comfort, and least not the jokettes that make us smile
thanks again i will keep you updated on mum in law and the dreaded creditors meeting.xxxx

Good luck Abby and i hope that your mother in law gets better soon. This is a great site and always cheers me up if i am feeling a little down.

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