Posted: Tue Oct 21, 2008 1:05 am
Hi, Divorced 1 year ago & been a bit mad with credit cards over last 4 years since seperating. Now have 3 credit cards owing £23k & 3 loans of totalling 22k. Currently just moved in with girlfriend but no shared accounts/bills so could claim I was renting a room... Good news is that my take home is £3,500 per month, bad news it''s a contract so certain not to last too long. Have been promised an extension of 6 months just taking me up to May 2009.
I owe several other people money like Richmond council for £2k.. My main expense in child maintenance at £800 per month, gym at £80 per month, mobile at £40, pension at £140 and everything is loans & credit cards. I should be paying my gf something for rent & bills, etc. (Would it look better if did?
Basically, I am completely screwed with interest and could start to pay back if I wasn''t paying so much interest.
My big worries are:
1. What do I do if/when my job comes to an end? I do have an option of working for the company on a permament basis but then my monthly take home falls to £2k per month, which I can''t really afford. I would love to work for them My gf owns her own home so its not like I need to get a mortgage together with her or anything like that.
2. How does the fact that I am living with her change things? I have only been living with her as of the end of Aug''08 & don''t have any shared bills/accounts, etc. Is it better if I pretend I am renting a room?
3. One of the loans, for 8k was a secured loan on a property I no longer own as I was bought out by my ex-wife & her wealthy family. What happens now if I default on this loan?
Thank you in advance for all your help.
Jon
I owe several other people money like Richmond council for £2k.. My main expense in child maintenance at £800 per month, gym at £80 per month, mobile at £40, pension at £140 and everything is loans & credit cards. I should be paying my gf something for rent & bills, etc. (Would it look better if did?
Basically, I am completely screwed with interest and could start to pay back if I wasn''t paying so much interest.
My big worries are:
1. What do I do if/when my job comes to an end? I do have an option of working for the company on a permament basis but then my monthly take home falls to £2k per month, which I can''t really afford. I would love to work for them My gf owns her own home so its not like I need to get a mortgage together with her or anything like that.
2. How does the fact that I am living with her change things? I have only been living with her as of the end of Aug''08 & don''t have any shared bills/accounts, etc. Is it better if I pretend I am renting a room?
3. One of the loans, for 8k was a secured loan on a property I no longer own as I was bought out by my ex-wife & her wealthy family. What happens now if I default on this loan?
Thank you in advance for all your help.
Jon