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hi
anybody out there tell me how you coped with the night before the meeting, ive sat with hubby and i dont think we strung a sentence together all night, gave up in the end and came to talk to my buddies, i really feel we should be talking about this, but its just not happening, the tension is awful and we are normally so close.[:(]

Abby its normal to be feeling that way. Just try to keep busy and keep your mind off it as best you can. Im sure everything is going to be fine.
You are so close to knowing one way or another, try to get a good nights sleep xxxxx

i might just be the all night poster tonight, cant see sleep happening, but can keep busy on here, you all really keep me going.xx

Don't worry I am sure it will pass - try and get some sleep - good luck

I really feel for you right now. I remember the feeling, waiting to see if hubby's IVA had been accepted. I went outside and painted the solid mahogony front door with white gloss.
I just had a feeling of dread all over me.
You need to try not to worry too much. What will be will be and if the IVA is not accepted there are other options.

I'm sure tomorrow night you will be celebrating though xxxxx

thanks david.X

my pleasure
xx

i hope everything will be ok but to have a rejection and have to start from the beginnig again would be awful,but what will be, will be. soz im moaning.[:p]

It will and presumably your IP should have indicated the possible outcome to you - if he/she worth his/her salt would not have put one forward in first place.
x

You are allowed to moan. Its going to be a hard few hours.
Im going to bed now but i will be thinking of you tomorrow and will keep checking in to find out the news.

Best of luck......

Love n hugs .......Lisa xxxxxxxxx

I am sure that your IP will be delivering good news to you tomorrow Abby! Do get some rest - tomorrow is another day! (Was that in Gone with the Wind?)

to lisa nite, sleep well, yes david i do really beleive in my ip. just my own insecurities stepping in at this point but i am sure whatever the outcome they have done their best.x

pleasant dreams
x

hi abby...the night before our meeting i took lots of drugs.!!!...no seriously we sat down and watched a dvd...had some wine and i read in bed till i literally dropped off...book landing on floor...must have been about 4am....then i was up for work at 7am...went about like a zombie...but only had to wait till mid-day
if you get really bored ...read all the blogs..mine alone will take you till next week to work your way through LOL...or better still start your own....

try and go to bed ...sleep will come
...and as other posters have said...your IP wouldnt have put this forward if there wasnt a realistical outcome expected

let us know..i am going to do my blog and then go to bed...so night night....

Good luck and best wishes from me too.

Excellent quote from Mel re Gone with the Wind, for me I always thought tomorrow's just another day was a Madness song but nonetheless best wishes.

Regards.