Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 5:41 pm
Sorry guys but i really need to rant,im completely hacked off at the moment & felt i need to let off steam.
why isnt anything ever straight forward (we only have ourselves to blame for our situation).we are in our 4th year & everything was ok then within the last couple of months we have lost £500 in salary due to my company cutbacks & my partners business having to close.we were paying £500 per mth iva payments & have contacted my ip to explain situation & last week filled a new I&E form in and returned to my ip,still waiting for them to get back to me.......
when i initially spoke to my ip they were sympathetic & explained they could perhaps let us have a 6 mth payment break which is helpful but things wont be any different in 6 mths will it.our wages will not dramatically increase & i cant see a way out of this mess.things at home our getting touchy as we are arguing over petty rubbish because of our situation.we are supposed to remortgage next year & pay a £31,000 lump sum,that isnt gonna happen either is it.
Sorry to rant & i must remember that we have our health & each other & are better off than others.
why isnt anything ever straight forward (we only have ourselves to blame for our situation).we are in our 4th year & everything was ok then within the last couple of months we have lost £500 in salary due to my company cutbacks & my partners business having to close.we were paying £500 per mth iva payments & have contacted my ip to explain situation & last week filled a new I&E form in and returned to my ip,still waiting for them to get back to me.......
when i initially spoke to my ip they were sympathetic & explained they could perhaps let us have a 6 mth payment break which is helpful but things wont be any different in 6 mths will it.our wages will not dramatically increase & i cant see a way out of this mess.things at home our getting touchy as we are arguing over petty rubbish because of our situation.we are supposed to remortgage next year & pay a £31,000 lump sum,that isnt gonna happen either is it.
Sorry to rant & i must remember that we have our health & each other & are better off than others.