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Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 10:43 pm
by trev.09
MY WIFE AND I ARE IN A JOINT IVA AND ARE 24 MONTHS INTO IT. I HAVE BEEN DOING OVERTIME TO SUPPORT A GAMBLING ADDICTION AND NOT DECLARED THIS TO THE IP. MY WIFE HAS JUST FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS AND IS NOW WORRIED ABOUT LOSING THE HOUSE AS THIS IS NOT HER FAULT.HOW WILL THIS AFFECT THE IVA.

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 10:50 pm
by MelanieGiles
Hi there and welcome to the forum

The most immediate issue to deal with is that of your gambling - so can I suggest that you try and stop of your own accord or seek professional help.

Once this is dealt with, you should then address the effect this may have on your IVA - ie are you required to pay over a percentage of your additional earnings? If so, you may be in default of the arrangement, but this should have been picked up by your IP in their last annual review. See advice from them directly as to what you now need to do, but take comfort that this is unlikely to result in you losing your home.

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:20 pm
by trev.09
I AM SEEKING HELP FROM G.A. MY LAST ANNUAL REVIEW WAS OK. I ONLY STARTED GAMBLING APPX JUNE LAST YEAR.AND MY ANNUAL REVIEW IS SOMETIME IN MAY. IM SUPPOSED TO PAY 50% OF ALL EXTRA INCOME. BUT HAVE FAILED TO DO SO. DUE TO MY ADDICTION.

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:43 pm
by MelanieGiles
How much do you feel that you may owe under the 50% ruling Trev?

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 12:20 am
by trev.09
NOT SURE MAYBE £4500

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 1:35 am
by MelanieGiles
You must discuss this with your IP as a matter of extreme priority Trev, and try to see what can be done to put things right. But kicking the gambling habit has to be number one priority, and I wish you the very luck with this.

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 5:38 am
by Shining
Hi Trev, welcome to the forum, sincerely hope it works out for you x

Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 12:39 am
by trev.09
THANX EVERYONE FOR THEIR SUPPORT.MY WIFE PHONED IVA COMPANY TO SPEAK TO SUPERVISOR YESTERDAY AT 9AM AND IS STILL WAITING TO HEAR FROM THEM.I WAS GOING TO DO THIS MYSELF BUT SHE BEAT ME TO IT AS I WAS SLEEPING DUE TO ME WORKING NIGHTSHIFT.IWILL LET YOU KNOW HOW I GET ON AND ONCE AGAIN TANKYOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT X trev.09

Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 2:06 am
by MelanieGiles
She sounds like a terrific lady Trev - make sure you look after her, and best of luck for the future.

Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 8:51 am
by kallis3
Good luck Trev. Hope you manage to get things sorted out, and what a lovely supportive wife you have.

Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 10:53 am
by Lisa2009
Good luck from me too. Hope it all works out.

Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 11:48 am
by Declan at DebtFreeDirect
Best of luck with this Trev and I do hope it works out okay. As Melanie mentioned, seeking help on the addition is so important and I hope everything works out okay with your IVA.

Thanks

Posted: Fri Apr 30, 2010 10:38 am
by trev.09
I HAVE THIS MORNING PHONED THE IVA SUPERVISOR,THEY ARE GOING TO LET ME START THIS YEAR WITH A CLEAN SLATE. I WILL NEED TO SEND THEM MY I+E FOR THEM TO REVIEW AND THEY HAVE REASSURED ME THAT EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OK. I WENT TO MY FIRST G.A. MEETING LAST NIGHT AND WHEN I LEFT I FELT 1000 TIMES BETTER, WORK IS GOING TO REARRANGE MY SHIFTS SO THAT I CAN ATTEND THE MEETINGS ONCE A WEEK. I KNOW THIS IS GOING TO TAKE TIME AND REALISE THAT I ONLY HAVE EVERYTHING TO GAIN.I AM NOW GOING TO START TO REPAIR EVERYTHING I HAVE DESTROYED. THANX TO EVERYONE FOR THEIR SUPPORTIVE REPLIES xxx trev.09
JOURNEYS LONG OR SHORT START WITH A SINGLE STEP

Posted: Fri Apr 30, 2010 11:07 am
by Clairbare
Good luck Trev and well done for taking the first step - in life that first step is always the hardest - let's hope things only get easier for yourself and your wife in the future - look after each other xx

Posted: Fri Apr 30, 2010 11:18 am
by kallis3
Excellent news Trev. Sounds as though things are on the up. What a supportive IP and employer you have.

Good luck with GA, hope it works for you.

Let us know how things are going.