Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 9:41 am
Hi,
I have received a windfall. It's not huge, but it needs paying to my IVA.
There is a problem though. We're looking to rent somewhere else, and it's looking increasingly likely that unless we have the 6 month rent upfront, we are going to struggle to find anything. The windfall will cover this.
Our landlord is selling and on the verge of completion. We're in limbo with a rolling contract for who knows how long. With 3 kids at school, we need to be in control, and not being dictated to by a faceless landlord. One child moves up to secondary school next September, so we need to create stability now.
So, what do I do?
Option 1.
Pay the money into the IVA, and not be able to move? We have to move for economic (mainly commuting costs) and future housing needs.
Option 2
Keep the money, and use it for advanced rent, but risk breeching the IVA.
We cannot afford to continue living where we are and we cannot keep the windfall money. Both scenarios potentially end in bankruptcy.
We don't qualify for help in terms of social housing, because I earn too much. Financial obligations and poor credit history limit our options.
Every time there's some light, someone pulls the shutters on us, and we end up despairing of out situation. So stressful.
Just looking for advice. I really don't know which way to go. I want to do the right thing, but I'm not sure what that is. I can't help feeling that family and personal relationship needs take priority over creditors.
I have received a windfall. It's not huge, but it needs paying to my IVA.
There is a problem though. We're looking to rent somewhere else, and it's looking increasingly likely that unless we have the 6 month rent upfront, we are going to struggle to find anything. The windfall will cover this.
Our landlord is selling and on the verge of completion. We're in limbo with a rolling contract for who knows how long. With 3 kids at school, we need to be in control, and not being dictated to by a faceless landlord. One child moves up to secondary school next September, so we need to create stability now.
So, what do I do?
Option 1.
Pay the money into the IVA, and not be able to move? We have to move for economic (mainly commuting costs) and future housing needs.
Option 2
Keep the money, and use it for advanced rent, but risk breeching the IVA.
We cannot afford to continue living where we are and we cannot keep the windfall money. Both scenarios potentially end in bankruptcy.
We don't qualify for help in terms of social housing, because I earn too much. Financial obligations and poor credit history limit our options.
Every time there's some light, someone pulls the shutters on us, and we end up despairing of out situation. So stressful.
Just looking for advice. I really don't know which way to go. I want to do the right thing, but I'm not sure what that is. I can't help feeling that family and personal relationship needs take priority over creditors.