Posted: Wed May 06, 2015 2:02 pm
Hi Everyone,
Haven't posted here in such a long time, but always refer back to here to read other peoples experiences for some moral support when I need it.
Basically, how things have changed dramatically since I last posted. My husband and I had our second little baby last August and thankfully we have reached a settled period with our won now since our son was sick when born and spent a period of time in neo natal care.
For the benefit of the forum members I alone entered an IVA in sept 2013 for personal debts that I had accrued prior to meeting my husband. c £40k. My IVA arrangement is with McCambrifge Duffy and I have to say they have been a tower of strength from beginning and until now. I am ill with stress and worry now as I am unable to return to employment since my previous family child care arrangements are no longer possible as the family members in question have advised us that they feel too old to take on the care of 2 children, one aged 4 and the other an infant as well as maintaining the care of an elderly parent of their own. This I totally understand but I now can't afford to pay standard child care costs as they wud exceed my takr homr pay literally and as such i am faced to become a stay at home mother. I have spoken with McCambrifge Duffy and they have suggested putting forward a full and final settlement to my creditors now that the IVA will no longer be viable. My problem is that I have NO money at all. We have barely managed surviving on statutory maternity pay at £138 per week and our tax credits entitlement will be more like £90 a week when I will be unemployed. McCambrifge Duffy advised if a family member or friend could offer my creditors a sum on my behalf as a full and final offet but I explained that not only do our family members ans friends know nothing about my IVA they themselves do not have any real sums of money to offer me.
My question is, given my husband is totally excluded from my IVA could he make an offer to my creditors as full and final settlement on my behalf? Would this be seen as unacceptable or acceptable given he is unassisted with the debt? My husband himself has ZERO but he does do the Irish lottery each week with his colleague and 2gether they won 1 week ago £1400 each! My husband intended to use this money to pay off some of his own personal credit card balances (roughly £5k) that he has accrued but has now made the suggestion to me that he would be prepared to offer it to my creditors as a full and final offer for me. He sees how much stress I am under with this whole matter and wants to help in any small way possible. My payments are due to resume at the end of this month but obviously will not given there is no income to cover them. Could someone please help and advise me on their thoughts and experiences?
My figures were roughly a 30p in the £ return to my creditors and I appreciate this offer would be nowhere near that but if it is not acceptable then bankruptcy would offer them even less, in fact cost them more as they would have to petition for my bankruptcy as I could not afford to do so myself. Despite all I do wish to try and avoid bankruptcy but realise it may be the only possibility.
Thanks for reading and I would so appreciate advice please on how to best proceed.
E x
Haven't posted here in such a long time, but always refer back to here to read other peoples experiences for some moral support when I need it.
Basically, how things have changed dramatically since I last posted. My husband and I had our second little baby last August and thankfully we have reached a settled period with our won now since our son was sick when born and spent a period of time in neo natal care.
For the benefit of the forum members I alone entered an IVA in sept 2013 for personal debts that I had accrued prior to meeting my husband. c £40k. My IVA arrangement is with McCambrifge Duffy and I have to say they have been a tower of strength from beginning and until now. I am ill with stress and worry now as I am unable to return to employment since my previous family child care arrangements are no longer possible as the family members in question have advised us that they feel too old to take on the care of 2 children, one aged 4 and the other an infant as well as maintaining the care of an elderly parent of their own. This I totally understand but I now can't afford to pay standard child care costs as they wud exceed my takr homr pay literally and as such i am faced to become a stay at home mother. I have spoken with McCambrifge Duffy and they have suggested putting forward a full and final settlement to my creditors now that the IVA will no longer be viable. My problem is that I have NO money at all. We have barely managed surviving on statutory maternity pay at £138 per week and our tax credits entitlement will be more like £90 a week when I will be unemployed. McCambrifge Duffy advised if a family member or friend could offer my creditors a sum on my behalf as a full and final offet but I explained that not only do our family members ans friends know nothing about my IVA they themselves do not have any real sums of money to offer me.
My question is, given my husband is totally excluded from my IVA could he make an offer to my creditors as full and final settlement on my behalf? Would this be seen as unacceptable or acceptable given he is unassisted with the debt? My husband himself has ZERO but he does do the Irish lottery each week with his colleague and 2gether they won 1 week ago £1400 each! My husband intended to use this money to pay off some of his own personal credit card balances (roughly £5k) that he has accrued but has now made the suggestion to me that he would be prepared to offer it to my creditors as a full and final offer for me. He sees how much stress I am under with this whole matter and wants to help in any small way possible. My payments are due to resume at the end of this month but obviously will not given there is no income to cover them. Could someone please help and advise me on their thoughts and experiences?
My figures were roughly a 30p in the £ return to my creditors and I appreciate this offer would be nowhere near that but if it is not acceptable then bankruptcy would offer them even less, in fact cost them more as they would have to petition for my bankruptcy as I could not afford to do so myself. Despite all I do wish to try and avoid bankruptcy but realise it may be the only possibility.
Thanks for reading and I would so appreciate advice please on how to best proceed.
E x