Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2016 12:08 am
Need desperate help
I'm 23 my life's going on well, got a good job that pays 1800, however here comes downfall:
I lost a fortune to financial markets in 2 weeks which includes my savings credit card and loans after enjoying a very good time trading the financial markets, unfortunately due to panics I started pumping money from my credit cards until I maxed everything out trading.
I now owe 11 creditors a total of 70k.
I have had advice from debt charities who proposed iva or bankruptcy as my disposable income is about 150 a month, I have 2 kids. I have opted for a DMP this could take about 40 years if interest is frozen or that's even if they agree to a dmp this long and a bit unrealistic which scares me.
I can't go insolvent as its just not worth the damage it may cause in future, I know if comes off after 6 years but some creditors or may be companies ask if you have ever been insolvent regardless of how long it was.
I really am starting to feel low and almost dead that I may have ruined my future which was really bright 1 week ago.
Did I just ruin my life in a week? I may spend years and years paying debt I didn't even enjoy?
I've previously dealt with depression on my own due to a relationship breakdown which was really hard at the time.
Now what I am going through is just worse than depression as the pain of my relationship breakdown has come back + this debt, I feel like not existing, but I can't as I have kids.
My breakdown is
Rent £390
Bills £50
Child maintenance + child minding £390 (2 kids)
Fuel £240 (work 68 miles daily)
Insurance £130
Food and toiletries £290
Hair £11
Leisure £11
Clothing £30
Emergency £12
Dentist £10
Medicine £11
Mobile £30
Car tax £22
Maintenance £20.
I get worried now asking myself will they accept my proposal?
Will they decline for reasons such as it will take 40 years to pay off?
What's the worst they can do to me?
I'm hoping they agree to this dmp and I'll offer 20% f&f settlement, could they accept this?
Please help!
I'm 23 my life's going on well, got a good job that pays 1800, however here comes downfall:
I lost a fortune to financial markets in 2 weeks which includes my savings credit card and loans after enjoying a very good time trading the financial markets, unfortunately due to panics I started pumping money from my credit cards until I maxed everything out trading.
I now owe 11 creditors a total of 70k.
I have had advice from debt charities who proposed iva or bankruptcy as my disposable income is about 150 a month, I have 2 kids. I have opted for a DMP this could take about 40 years if interest is frozen or that's even if they agree to a dmp this long and a bit unrealistic which scares me.
I can't go insolvent as its just not worth the damage it may cause in future, I know if comes off after 6 years but some creditors or may be companies ask if you have ever been insolvent regardless of how long it was.
I really am starting to feel low and almost dead that I may have ruined my future which was really bright 1 week ago.
Did I just ruin my life in a week? I may spend years and years paying debt I didn't even enjoy?
I've previously dealt with depression on my own due to a relationship breakdown which was really hard at the time.
Now what I am going through is just worse than depression as the pain of my relationship breakdown has come back + this debt, I feel like not existing, but I can't as I have kids.
My breakdown is
Rent £390
Bills £50
Child maintenance + child minding £390 (2 kids)
Fuel £240 (work 68 miles daily)
Insurance £130
Food and toiletries £290
Hair £11
Leisure £11
Clothing £30
Emergency £12
Dentist £10
Medicine £11
Mobile £30
Car tax £22
Maintenance £20.
I get worried now asking myself will they accept my proposal?
Will they decline for reasons such as it will take 40 years to pay off?
What's the worst they can do to me?
I'm hoping they agree to this dmp and I'll offer 20% f&f settlement, could they accept this?
Please help!