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Look on here every day. Helps to know others are going through the same.
Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2017 8:14 am
by moira717
Thank you. All a bit of a minefield at the moment. This site is invaluable. If only I had Done all this sooner. Has taken me 3 yrs to admit the problem and tell my husband. Look on here every day. Helps to know others going through same. Thankyou
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Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2017 8:46 am
by kallis3
Glad we are able to be here for support and assistance.
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Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2017 10:37 pm
by Allywally
You are not alone in wishing you had acted sooner, I know I wish I had but here I am starting my 5th year and I can't believe where the time has gone! Good luck, you have made the right decision.
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Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2017 11:01 pm
by Andy.75
Definitely not alone. Mine finished 1 year ago and its an amazing feeling knowing that i have no debts, some savings, and can afford to live again. Good luck with your journey
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Posted: Tue Mar 07, 2017 11:00 am
by plasticdaft
The done it sooner mantra is all too common. Our debt would have been 20k less if we had talen action earlier.
Glad the site continues to offer the support we all need to get us through tough times.
Paul
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Posted: Tue Mar 07, 2017 11:14 am
by janeyjaney1
I'm finding it a very valuable site too, I'm still in the early stages, still waiting for the votes to come back but knowing I'm not alone is a huge help, I'm really hoping I hear something this week as I've felt like I'm in limbo the last 2 weeks.
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Posted: Tue Mar 07, 2017 11:24 am
by moira717
Thank you. Have just posted my proposal after reading 4 times! Stomach churning and fingers crossed!
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2017 10:49 am
by moira717
Update.. rang step change this morning as still not had date through. It's set for April 4th (creditors meeting). They said proposal still there waiting for IP to sign then they will notify creditors. Am thinking that doesn't give them 4 wks. I asked re payments, they said to carry on whatever payments I'm making until creditors meeting
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2017 11:09 am
by Foggy
They must have already given notice once they had the documents signed by you ( which they cannot control ) . The IP can sign anytime in reality.
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2017 1:59 pm
by moira717
Oh thanks foggy, I was worried about the time scale. I still keep getting letters from my creditors, is this usual if they have been given notice?
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2017 5:35 pm
by Foggy
moira717 wrote:Oh thanks foggy, I was worried about the time scale. I still keep getting letters from my creditors, is this usual if they have been given notice?
It is usual to get creditor contact for a few weeks after the acceptance, they will, however, usually put a hold on the account for 30 days if told and given the IPs details, so you have to brave the storm for a while yet.
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2017 6:23 pm
by moira717
Ok thank you. Just can't wait t for the phone calls/ letters to stop! Feels relentless. Just pray iva is accepted. I know iva is a journey but pre iva is a journey in itself!. Thank you for all your advice. This site is invaluable.
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2017 6:31 pm
by Foggy
You are welcome, Moira. My postie did cartwheels when my letters stoped

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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2017 7:23 pm
by moira717
Yes think my postman will be part time if mine accepted
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Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2017 12:38 am
by luluj
Fingers crossed for you. My only thought is you have been advised to continue paying your creditors - personally I would question this as to me this is showing you are continuing to 'manage' - during this time you could be building a small contingency for use in the iva if you were to cease your payments - this is the route many of us went and found the contingency to be of benefit to cover the inevitable emergency.