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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:01 am
by Shining
hi all, going away for a few days in MIL's caravan, daughter going off on school trip to Belgium at 7.30, so this is my holiday and it looks like the weather is going to be kind to us too. I hope to come back de-stressed and relaxed! Take care all and everyone with meetings etc., good luck, hope it all goes well for everyone x
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:46 am
by cat 1
Have a lovely break Lesley.You deserve it! Cat
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 7:46 am
by angela18
ooh lucky you.. enjoy x
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 7:56 am
by aguise
Have a lovely holiday lesley, you relax.
Ang xx
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 8:22 am
by Viki.W
You deserve the break Lesley, enjoy yourself. X
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 8:44 am
by Skippy
Have a great time Lesley x
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 9:23 am
by Lisa2009
Have a great time lesley xxxx
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 9:26 am
by sblack
Have a great time Lesley and like you say the weather looks good.
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 9:42 am
by chris.g
Hope you have a great time and I'll keep my fingers crossed the weather is nice, enjoy.... xx
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 10:01 am
by freelili
Have a lovely time, relax and enjoy. The weather looks good this week, lets hope it lasts.
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 9:58 pm
by rockbottom
hope you have a fab time and the weather is kind to you.
rb
Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 12:23 pm
by Shining
I'm back bit sooner than planned, domestic,I can't do right for doing wrong. Not sure which way forward I'm going but I'll be contacting Melanie with respect to the IVA being separated if it's possible as I seriously now think it's time I left him. Being in an IVA is hard, no idea where to get advice from, the house he can't afford it, can we sell it? so many questions and I am so tired. x
Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 12:26 pm
by Skippy
Oh Lesley I'm so sorry - I really don't know what to say, you're going through such a rough time at the moment. I think the best thing you can do is talk to Melanie as she'll be able to let you know your options.
I know I can't make you feel better, but I'm sending you a big hug and I'm thinking of you xxx
Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 12:40 pm
by Shining
I've taken granddaughter back early and I'm sat here tears streaming down my face, I always thought I could see this through the IVA minimum, but it's becoming unbearable. I have a fourteen year old coming home from Belgium this evening. What in hells name do I do? be unhappy for next four and half years, till IVA is finished? My plan has always been to get her to uni and then leave, give her independance and then regain my own. Not sure what to do really? I know I should go but how can I when a fourteen year old is involved. Money has kept us together for so long or shall I say lack of it. Sorry to offload on here. I'm desperate enough to go today but can't bear the thought of making my daughter miserable. x
Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 12:41 pm
by MelanieGiles
Lesley
Contact me directly so that we can discuss these issues and find a way forward.