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i wanted to post on all the other threads tonight and say funny ..witty ....upbeat things and offer support and help to anyone who needed it..
i wanted to say CONGRATS to those who had been approved..got to keep their car...started at college...i wanted to just smile and ...you know....but i dont have anything left to give at the moment...i have run out...please read my blog...for why .!!

Oh TOL I don't know what to say honey - life is so cruel eh?

I've read your blog, as per usual, its part of my nightly routine.

You're OH may find another job or even try another direction? Do they offer any career advice in his company? Please don't give up hope. You have each other and thats far more important than bricks and mortar.

Please keep posting, so we know you're okay and we can return the support you often give.

Thinking of you and wish I could make things better.

Julie x

Tol, I'm so very sorry. It's not definite yet so please don't give up. My email is playing up but as soon as it's up and running I'll email you. Thinking of you and sending a virtual hug. X

TOL, so sorry to hear your news. I hope OH isn't made redundant.

Just remember though that we're all here for you.

awww tol like you say to me keep your chin up things DO GET BETTER
XXXXXX

Please dont give up, sometimes its really hard to look here and see everyone else moving on, getting sorted and well just content with their life.

I saw so many of my friends get sorted, come through and I felt crap, even though I posted messages of support and everything else. I would have given anything to be one of them, just take a day out of my hell, or see some sunshine, I couldnt. I had lost my best friend in the whole world, It hurt like hell, why had this happened to me?? It so wasnt fair, I knew no matter what, I would wake up with that same pain tomorrow. I would have to go to my mothers house, pack up her life, sell the home that was always somewhere to turn, someone who cared and who I could always count on to understand. Life was black and I did feel like giving up.... I knew that other people loved me, needed me and if I gave up, they would never know how much I loved them, how could I fail them???

You have become a very lovely, important person in this community, you just shine right through. Just how you have reached out to others, we want to reach out to you, and say, it will get better, it did for me. Youre not walking through life right now, youre climbing, vertically and its so very hard, you feel like youre going to fall, youre scared. You will get there, life is very cruel sometimes. We are here to listen and to chat to. Like Viki, I am having trouble with emails but as soon as I can get through I will.

Take care now, and please dont give up.

tol! just want you to know that i am thinking of you and hubby!

i really hope that by some miracle he gets to keep his job and things start to look up for you both!

sending you both a big hug!

love barb x

I've been reading your blog too TOL. Everything crossed hubby gets to keep his job x

I hope things work out for you and hubby TOL - I've emailed you xxx

TOL,
I really hope everything sorts itself out for you. Thank so much for taking the time to send your congratulations to me when you must have been feeling low. I now see what you meant when you said that you needed some good news.
Fingers crossed for you.

TOL

Been thinking of you all day, I hope youre Ok, I will try and email you later.

Please come on and let us know youre OK??

Love and hugs.

Terrible. Thoughts are with you TOL.

Hi again TOL

I can understand that although the forum is full of people, it can feel like a lonely place when youre feeling so low, I have emailed you.

I do hope youre OK. Thinking of you

hugs

Tol, I hope you are feeling ok today. The forum seems strange without you on here.

Thinking of you too Tol. I too hope all turns out ok. I cannot imagine how you are both working, we have both had our jobs for many years and I cannot imagine getting this kind of news. Thoughts with you both always here for you if you need a chat just ask and i will send my email.

Ang xx