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Not ben around much lately, been really struggling just to get through the day.
Last weekend was the 3rd anniversary of losing my son and his gf and I found it really difficult to cope with. Even now I'm not quite sure what the point in anything is any more. Number 2 son was distraught on Saturday and it's hard to see your kids suffering that badly when you can't do anything to make them feel better.
Added to that, we've spent the last month visiting uni's up and down the country as number 2 son hopes to be off next year. I AM NOT READY FOR THIS!
Moneywise, keeping up (just about) - expensive mot, extra petrol for above trips, vets bills and on and on and on it goes.
Went out yesterday and bought a couple of things but checked bank before I left and kept a note in a little book in my bag every time I spent something so I knew what was left. Never before would I have done that - who am I and where has the old me gone??
Anyway, just dropped by to say hello and I hope everyone is well.

P x

Hi Pap, cannot even begin to imagine how you or LadyH cope other than you're strong amazing people, with hearts of gold.

I am thinking of you both and sending a big cyber hug {{{hug}}}}

Hi Pap,

Lovely to hear from you - like Lesley has said, I don't know how you and ladyH cope, my heart really does go out to you.

xx

Hi Pap, it's good to hear from you.

Like the others have said I don't know how you and Ladyh cope. Lots of love to you both xxx

Good to hear from you Pap. Sorry things have been a bit down, very understandable. You and ladyh have been through so much and yet seem to be so strong.

Know what you mean about universities - daughter was the same three years ago!