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hi all
Just wondering if anybody out there has gotten very short tempered with their spouse in the days leading up to the iva meeting? I have noticed today that i seem particularly snappy with my hubby, which i know i cant help but try and bite my tounge a bit! [}:)]

Hi
This is so normal,you both are under stress with the worry of the creditors meeting.
Remember that your relationship and family ARE the most important thing.
Good Luck with your meeting
Regards

thanks andy, i will remember that [:)] not long to wait now anyway..

Oh Shazzles, my husband will verify that I was a nightmare to live with and the £9 travelodge rooms were looking a good option for me to move to! Seriously, I honestly was so snappy and he could do nothing or say anything right. Even today I snapped cos of this boiler problem we're having and I just feel it will never be fixed and just get worse and worse! Your meeting is Tuesday isn't it? Try and stay calm or as calm as possible. I think my problem is that I can't seem to get a reaction out of my husband re the IVA nothing bothers him, it's all taken in his stride. Even when I showed him our name on the Insolvency Register he didn't appear phased..just oh..they've put my middle name on as though that was a crime! I knew to snap and snarl would create a response. It won't be long now and as Andy says your relationship is the most important thing here! We survived it and I'm sure you will x