Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 1:56 pm
Hi all – I’m new here and in relation to IVA’s and “dealing” with debt, I am incredibly wet behind the ears, Naïve or some would possibly say ignorant.
Without being derogatory to anyone here can I say it has been a real weight off my mind to know there are people out there similar to myself and to find out that there is a possible light at the end of the tunnel.
I have no idea whether or not I am a worst case scenario but I feel like a lost cause to myself and I really do not know where to start. I have a lot of debt (I would say around the £20,000 mark). Some of it has been ignored for a long time. Some of it has become CCj’s. All of it remains in arrears. There is no way I can afford to pay it all back. I don’t even remember half of the people I owe money to.
I have come to a point in my life where it is make or break, I want to be able to set up a life for myself and my partner, by a house, have children and give them a life they would deserve. But with my current state of affairs this would never be possible.
An IVA sounds like the most sensible route based on my current situation?
I did look at this option about a year ago and contacted Debt Free Direct – they hassled me more than my creditors and in the end did more damage than good in persuading me to sign up with them so I shied away back into the debt riddled, robbing peter to pay paul existence that I had become used to.
So there you have it a little about me.
Now to ask something of you guys as you seem to know how I may be feeling?
Where do I start ?
I have no idea who I owe and have no idea how to trace it back ?
Should I use a company like debt free direct ? (they seemed very dodgy) what’s in it for them?
I just need to make that first step and I think I’ve found a place where I can do it – hopefully with your help?
Thanks for hearing me out
Jonny
Without being derogatory to anyone here can I say it has been a real weight off my mind to know there are people out there similar to myself and to find out that there is a possible light at the end of the tunnel.
I have no idea whether or not I am a worst case scenario but I feel like a lost cause to myself and I really do not know where to start. I have a lot of debt (I would say around the £20,000 mark). Some of it has been ignored for a long time. Some of it has become CCj’s. All of it remains in arrears. There is no way I can afford to pay it all back. I don’t even remember half of the people I owe money to.
I have come to a point in my life where it is make or break, I want to be able to set up a life for myself and my partner, by a house, have children and give them a life they would deserve. But with my current state of affairs this would never be possible.
An IVA sounds like the most sensible route based on my current situation?
I did look at this option about a year ago and contacted Debt Free Direct – they hassled me more than my creditors and in the end did more damage than good in persuading me to sign up with them so I shied away back into the debt riddled, robbing peter to pay paul existence that I had become used to.
So there you have it a little about me.
Now to ask something of you guys as you seem to know how I may be feeling?
Where do I start ?
I have no idea who I owe and have no idea how to trace it back ?
Should I use a company like debt free direct ? (they seemed very dodgy) what’s in it for them?
I just need to make that first step and I think I’ve found a place where I can do it – hopefully with your help?
Thanks for hearing me out
Jonny