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Hi all,

I am absolutely devastated, had to go for pregnancy scan yesterday and couldn't find hearbeat. They think babies ( there are 2 showing) may have stopped progressing at 6 weeks but they dont know so I have to go back in 2 weeks time. I was feeling so well with this pregnancy.

As i sit here with tears streaming, I ccouldn't think of anywhere to offload to, sorry I know this isn't the right place. My hubby, bless him is in bits but trying to be strong for me and telling me there's still hope and we musn't give up. I hope he's right.
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Julie
I am so sorry I can't even imagine what you are going through just to say you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jan

oh julie.. how awful, so sorry and I know nothing I say is of consolation, but I'm thinking of you.,. and big hug for you as well

Julie

I am so sorry to hear your news - and do feel free to use the forum as your virtual support for as long as you like. Debt may be the catalyst which brings us all together, but at the end of the day we are a community which helps each other through hundreds of different areas on a daily basis.

I feel like jumping in the car and driving down the M4 to give you a big hug. Keep strong for each other, retain your faith and hope and you will get through whatever you have to face over the next few days.

Julie, I'm so sorry. I really don't know what to say. I hope everything is going to be ok, we're all here for you. X

Julie I am so sorry, I hope all will be ok,here for you anytime.
Big virtual hug for you both.

Ang xx

hi julie

i am so sorry and i know there is nothing i can say to make you feel better, but i am sending you and your hubby a big hug!

thinking of you both

love barb x

Hi Swans_girl

We feel honoured that you turned for help to the forum - that's what its for.
Never forget that here you are among true friends, please feel free to share your pain with us so that we can all send you our prayers and our love.
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Thanks for all your kind words, you have no idea how much they mean....the tears are really falling now. Strange how "strangers" can offer so much comfort.

i will try and be strong, though i don't know how I'll get through the next 2 weeks in work. If i don't post on here for a while, it will only be my way of coping.

Good luck to you all and thanks again xx

Hey Julie

I am so sorry, I really am. I dont know what to say, I had two babies and I lost one but the other got through. Please feel free to off load any time. Life just isnt fair sometimes. Its early days yet, please dont give up hope, its a bit much them expecting you to go away with that news for two weeks. I can well understand how hard thats going to be...... I am so very sorry and am hoping for the best for you.

Julie,that is terrible news for you and hubby,my heart goes out to you both in this hardest of times. You must remember that whatever happens was meant to happen and that some things in life,you cannot control by any means.
They wouldnt have sent you home to come back in 2 weeks if all hope was gone so please dont give up.

Take good care of yourself and dont leave hubby out of how you feel,coz he may not show it(like most of us men),but his insides will be tearing up with fear and anguish over what is happening.

Paul.

Julie my heart aches for you, I don't have the words but I just want you to know I'm thinking of you xx

I'm so sorry Julie. No words can ease the pain that you and your hubby are going through. We're here when you need us.
Big hugs, xxxx

Julie, I'm so sorry. lots of virtual hugs heading your way.

Julie, how terrible this must be for you. I really hope in 2 weeks there will be good news for you both.

Lots of love and hugs xxxxxxxxx