www.iva.co.uk

It was very strange too. I dreamed that I only had five more years to live, dont know how I knew it but was told by everyone in the dream (they were all people I knew that had died).They actually all said this to me.[B)][B)][B)] Then I woke up in the early hours and still thinking I only had this five years I worked out how old each of my children would be. Then I went back to sleep and gave everyone a piece of my mind, back to the same place with the same people. I am not prepared to die and leave my children they simply wont be old enough so you can forget that.[:(!][:(!] Anyway I woke this morning and was thinking about it, (I know an IVA last 5 years and have so often posted the 5 year thingy). I thought perhaps this is where the five years had come from in my mind. Spending far too much time on the site, Me thinks.

I am going to a wedding tomorrow and yesterday I got some fake tan, I have a problem where my blood does not clot and I am always covered in tiny bruises and wanted to cover them. Thinking about that this morning, I thought sod it, I will go and have a spray tan, 5 years isnt a long time and I am going to live it. (this was before I had woken up properly and realised it was just a dream). The spray tan is great though.[8D][8D][8D][8D]

Dreams are strange. I always wake up thinking they are real too. Puts the fear of god up me sometimes.

When i was diagnosed with MS i dreamed i was going to die and when i woke up i was planning what to write in letters to my kids. I cried my eyes out before i realised it was just a dream

I don't often remember my dreams. It would be nice to get some sleep lol.

Although that said you are probably right about the 5 yr thing.

I hope you both start to have nice dreams soon as you both deserve them!

xx

I did once dream i was in Eastenders.

I really should get out more LOL

Thing is it wasnt scary I thought it was real, I just thought I dont want to leave my children then but it made me think all day, like I really wanted to live. We worry about all these things in our lives and we really shouldnt worry about the things we cant change. There is no way that I would ever phone a salon and book a tan, I mean, I really shocked myself. I was really nervous about doing it when the time actually came to go but it never occurred to me to do it the day before, when I bought the fake bake. (which I took back today saying it wouldnt spray, tee hee) Kind of embarrassing too, you know???? I may sound daft but I hadnt given it a thought that I would have to strip off.

At the wedding tomorrow I am sure going to give people a shock, never looked so well. Lily aint so white any more, peeps

Lily, have fun at the wedding[:)]

you deserve a treat every now and again so hope you are happy with the spray tan - don't forget to keep moisturising as it will last longer and fade evenly!

I have had some really disturbing dreams lately and they are so bizare but I have so much going on at the moment its no wonder!

Take care
Love
Emma x

Sounds to me very much like the death card in the tarot pack. People fear it, but in reality all it means is a change is coming.

In a strange way, I suspect you were dreaming about being debt free in 5 years, which will be a good change.

Must be the season for weddings, I'm off to one today too.

Whoa lily that's scary!

I have a dream book and this is what is says about dreaming about your own death:

"To dream of your own death, indicates a transitional phase in your life. You are becoming more enlightened or spiritual. Alternatively, you are trying desperately to escape the demands of your daily life." Me thinks they could be right??

How strange ... I dreamt about my ex-mother-in-law and neice last night and I rarely dream.

Debbie

Lily, it could be symbolic of the end(death) of that phase in your life......

Funnily enough, I had a dream my nephew turned 3 of the kittens into vampires last night!!!! Horrible!!! He's my fav nephew and I was screaming and shouting at him, calling him dispicable and inhumane...... the kittens had these horrible white opaque eyes and they latched onto my arm.....now that's a scary dream.....
xx

I got two cats like that Chris ... do you want one???

No thanks Ray, got 3 adult and 5 kittens at the moment.....thankfully, none of them are vampires!!!
xx

Nothing so dramatic as dreaming about my mortality
for me.
The only recuuring one i have involves Kelly Brook
and a sherry trifle.

I dreamt about my husband buying a job lot of pink toilets!!!!!!!!!!!
Lord knows where that came from!

That all really interesting. I think the change this is probably right as I do feel that I am actually moving on with my life now after what can only be described as a nightmare the last few years. I dont usually remember dreams either. Mind you that vampire thingy would scare the hell of my me. All the dead people in my dream were not particularly close relatives, I lost my mother recently, very sudden death and completely unexpected, it does make you think about your own mortality pershaps?? Anyway, thanks for the replies. Pink toilets?? That made me laugh Kallis. I wonder (and I am no expert on dreams) if you need to get rid of some ****e in your life???.

I am now off to recover from my hangover, I only had 3 glasses of champagne stuff, I went to the wedding with hardly any money and since a coke cost £2.45 I wasnt buying any. I snuck some bottles in but we forgot the bottle opener!!!!!!