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today my dad took a heart attack, i feel like utter **** don't care what they edit my dad is my dad, yesterday i told my boss of my impending Br he was very good and today what do i do we all feel something until reality hits us this morning i thought i was going to lose my dad
kerri

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it has really hit home to me today what really matters and my family matters more to me than anything i feel like utter rubbish today i hope you can all understand that because if i lose my dad i will not know what to do
kerri

Hi Kerri
So sorry to hear about your Dad hope all goes well. I know how you must be feeling at the moment my husband had a heart attack out of the blue and it changed my outlook on everything and what was important and what isn't. Family is a most important thing and it should always come first. Wish I knew what else to say, I'm not particulary good at that but just want you to know I understand how you are feeling at this moment and that I am here if you just want a chat.

Ang x

Hi Kerri
So sorry to hear about your Dad hope all goes well. I know how you must be feeling at the moment my husband had a heart attack out of the blue and it changed my outlook on everything and what was important and what isn't. Family is a most important thing and it should always come first. Wish I knew what else to say, I'm not particulary good at that but just want you to know I understand how you are feeling at this moment and that I am here if you just want a chat.

Ang x

Kerry i am so sorry,i know how you feel my dad suffered a heart attack 8 yrs ago,and as you say it puts everything in perspective,i will add kerri that he had a bypass and has been really well and hes 70 now.
There is so much they can do to help your dad try and stay strong,and i no you also are going through so much as well we are all here for you anytime you need a chat,or a cry im sending lots of love to you and all your family x

I found out my Dad had cancer 6 months ago and realised that my huge debts (which I've known for some time I couldn't repay) really didn't mean anything in the scheme of things.

It's a funny thing to say but it made me do something about it - I'm proposing an IVA but have no fears about going bankrupt if it doesn't work.

Life and family are far more important than struggling to line the coffers of banks.

Hope everything works out for you.

Kerri

I am so sorry, this is horrible for you. I know its easier said than done but slow down, take each day as it comes. You feel worried and shocked by your Dad right now, cry, scream or whatever for him, but please do not blame yourself. You sound so broken and anxious, I understand this feeling. You are going to feel bad right now and you need to allow yourself to have these feelings. Stuff the BR and the creditors for a while, concentrate on you. We are all behind you and I am here for you anytime. Take care of yourself.

Extra special love

Semding hugs and best wishes to all of your family.

Love

LILY

I asked God for a solution and have to live with his reply.

I'm so sorry Kerri. As Lily says stuff everything else for now and concentrate on your dad. I'm also sending you a big hug xxx

Onwards and upwards!!!

Hi Kerri,

Our thoughts are with you take care
xx

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hi thanks everyone i did feel utter rubbish last night, especially with it happening on top of everything else, good news is he is doing really well, he had a bypass 3 yrs ago and i know he was terrified of going through anything like that again, but the doctor is pleased with him.
wants to come home he said hates the food so that is a good sign!
thank you all for your kind words also, feel a bit better today, you just think can anything else go wrong at the minute then you worry is it because of me telling them about the BR you blame your self for everything i suppose, but i am pleased he is so much better today.
thanks again
kerri

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Hi Kerri
So pleased to hear your dad is doing well, fully understand how you were feeling,must be feeling better if complaining about the food. Just glad you too are a bit better. Always here if you need an ear.

Ang x

Hi having a really bad day.me better half who i dont really think takes in a lot of the stress popped up the shop today and had some kind of panick attack,he blacked out fell over smashed his face broke his nose,and really hurt his face,from what i can gather i had been on at him about everything thats going on as you do and he hyperphentalated,i feel really bad,to be honest the whole situation is just getting to much.
Really need to make a desision about whats best

Tracy, I'm so sorry to hear that you are having a such a bad day. I hope your partner is soon on the mend, and that you can come to a decision and get on with your lives soon x

Kerri, I hope you are ok, and that your dad is on the mend as well x

Onwards and upwards!!!

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Thanx skippy it pits things in perspective,i thought it was only me struggling but now i no different,and kerri so do i hope your dad is getting on sorry to put my problems down when you are going through so much,as i say again i really do hope your dad is doing wellxx

hi everyone my dad is doing really well and is on the road to recovery in fact all being well they may let him home tomorrow as they are desperate for beds and he has done so well depends on the consultant obviously what a scare the old devil gave me, he's not that old really only 59, but they are pleased with his progression and so am i, tracy hope your other half is ok, i know what you mean about seeming not to be phased by the situation my hubby became the strong one while i became a mess, and its only now i see how the whole thing has effected him, he said he had to be strong to protect me and the family, we have actually told a few people now what is happening and the support we are receiving is unbelievable and i don;t know why i was so afraid to tell in the beginning, i actually found my aunty is BR by finding her name on the insolvency site, also my niece is in a dmp and none of us knew, its funny what comes to light isn't it?
i hope and wish everyone is ok and heres to a better future for all of us debtors out there everyone have a good night and a happy easter.
kerri

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Iam so pleased that your dad is doing well,we will now try and deal with our situation,and kerri you also have a good easter with your familyx