www.iva.co.uk

wow...i cant believe i have done it...after gearing myself up to maybe talk to our adult children on bank holiday monday i have already told one of them today...now just got the other one to talk to...

someone said on a post ..not to make a big thing of it...so i have told her...just not said the amount and probably wont as i am sure she will faint away....

anyway...will blog later and say reactions

Ooh, TOL, you're very brave. Glad you did it, it'll make you feel better not having to carry this secret burden around. Good for you, I'll await your blog. X

without sounding patronising "well done" !!..exposing this sort of info to someone,and especially a loved one,i feel is a very big and brave thing to do.im sure you will feel loads better for being open and upfront with your kids.will read your blog also![:)]