Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 1:56 pm
Afternoon all! This could turn into a very long post so i am apologising in advance!
me and my Husband entered an IVA last summer because we had over 40k worth of debt. We thought we were doing the right thing by doing this and for a while it did help us out alot! My husband changed jobs in october which required him to take a pay cut. We "thought" we could still manage to pay the IVA payments! In November or car died and we needed a new one for my husband to get to work his previous job was down the road from our house so we only spent a small amount on transport. His new job is around a 30 mile round trip in the car with no buses going near by! We contacted our IVA who were very kind and gave us 3 month grace on our payments to buy a new car. We didn't have the money up front so Husbands dad lent us the money to buy the car but we had to pay him back! We were going to use the IVA payments that we would of made to pay him back and then Christmas came. We didn't over spend but because of where Husband worked and the amount of diesel he was using it became a struggle to pay his dad the full payments we arrange. not only that but we fell behind with mortgage payments Gas elec and council tax payments. The 4 most important payments! We made arrangements with them to pay them off as well as his dad and now comes the time when we need to begin paying our IVA again and we've found that we cant make the full payments that were agreed only about a third of what we agreed. Even if we didn't have the extra payments on mortgage etc to pay we would still find it very difficult to make these payments given that our circumstances have changed some what.
I haven't rung the IVA company up as yet..........i'm far too scared to is the honest answer. Scared that they will say "tough you're still going to have to make the full payments" which i know we cant do.
To make the situation worse for them not us! I am currently 15 weeks pregnant which we are so so so happy about. I'll be going on maternity leave on 8th August and i know now that i wont be able to make any IVA payments due to being on the basic maternity pay of £112 a week!! not alot when you'll still be paying of Mortgage arrears plus Gas and Elec!
We are really considering Bankruptcy but i have no clue about it at all! I'm scared we will loose our house before baby arrives and i really wouldn't be able to handle the added pressure. I know for a fact that our house is in negative equity as we also have a secured loan on it and we'd probably be alright paying the normal monthly Mortgage payments and the secured loan payments! I've got to the point now where i think "I really couldn't give a s*@t what happens to our assests (if any) i just cant see a way out at the moment and feel like crying ALL the time which isn't good for my little baby! Where do i start? What do i do? HELP!!!!
thanks in advance Cleza xx
me and my Husband entered an IVA last summer because we had over 40k worth of debt. We thought we were doing the right thing by doing this and for a while it did help us out alot! My husband changed jobs in october which required him to take a pay cut. We "thought" we could still manage to pay the IVA payments! In November or car died and we needed a new one for my husband to get to work his previous job was down the road from our house so we only spent a small amount on transport. His new job is around a 30 mile round trip in the car with no buses going near by! We contacted our IVA who were very kind and gave us 3 month grace on our payments to buy a new car. We didn't have the money up front so Husbands dad lent us the money to buy the car but we had to pay him back! We were going to use the IVA payments that we would of made to pay him back and then Christmas came. We didn't over spend but because of where Husband worked and the amount of diesel he was using it became a struggle to pay his dad the full payments we arrange. not only that but we fell behind with mortgage payments Gas elec and council tax payments. The 4 most important payments! We made arrangements with them to pay them off as well as his dad and now comes the time when we need to begin paying our IVA again and we've found that we cant make the full payments that were agreed only about a third of what we agreed. Even if we didn't have the extra payments on mortgage etc to pay we would still find it very difficult to make these payments given that our circumstances have changed some what.
I haven't rung the IVA company up as yet..........i'm far too scared to is the honest answer. Scared that they will say "tough you're still going to have to make the full payments" which i know we cant do.
To make the situation worse for them not us! I am currently 15 weeks pregnant which we are so so so happy about. I'll be going on maternity leave on 8th August and i know now that i wont be able to make any IVA payments due to being on the basic maternity pay of £112 a week!! not alot when you'll still be paying of Mortgage arrears plus Gas and Elec!
We are really considering Bankruptcy but i have no clue about it at all! I'm scared we will loose our house before baby arrives and i really wouldn't be able to handle the added pressure. I know for a fact that our house is in negative equity as we also have a secured loan on it and we'd probably be alright paying the normal monthly Mortgage payments and the secured loan payments! I've got to the point now where i think "I really couldn't give a s*@t what happens to our assests (if any) i just cant see a way out at the moment and feel like crying ALL the time which isn't good for my little baby! Where do i start? What do i do? HELP!!!!
thanks in advance Cleza xx