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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:58 pm
by vic74
As some of you may have read, three of us have a meeting tomorrow myself mikey and trees 57 (i think thats correct). so keep your fingers and toes crossed for us all!
i dont know about the rest but anxiety doesnt even cover what im going through, im thinking of the worst case scenarios and not wanting to tell my elderly poorly father....
My stomach is churning etc i could do with a duvet day....[|)]
i understand that everyone goes through this but if anyone has any recommendations of how to calm down these ideas are welcome, hopefully i should know by 1.15pm tomorow going by other postings and i will let you all know! This is a great forum having never used one before and all the people on here are so nice and supportive its good to have somewhere to turn so definately an award should be given!!!
and it turns out there maybe some people local to myself who have gone through the same (thinking of the Derby supporter fan sorry couldnt remember your name off hand!)
Whilst i read alot about people struggling with money, im looking forward (maybe) to having more money what with paying the creditors at least 80% of my income pre IVA (if im accepted obviously)
anyway sorry im ranting on a bit but just wanted to talk about it!
please all hope wish and prey! preferred method applies! [;)]
Thanks Vic74
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:02 pm
by vic74
Apologies it wasnt trees 57 it was Frankie!!!!!
vic74 wrote:
As some of you may have read, three of us have a meeting tomorrow myself mikey and trees 57 (i think thats correct). so keep your fingers and toes crossed for us all!
i dont know about the rest but anxiety doesnt even cover what im going through, im thinking of the worst case scenarios and not wanting to tell my elderly poorly father....
My stomach is churning etc i could do with a duvet day....[|)]
i understand that everyone goes through this but if anyone has any recommendations of how to calm down these ideas are welcome, hopefully i should know by 1.15pm tomorow going by other postings and i will let you all know! This is a great forum having never used one before and all the people on here are so nice and supportive its good to have somewhere to turn so definately an award should be given!!!
and it turns out there maybe some people local to myself who have gone through the same (thinking of the Derby supporter fan sorry couldnt remember your name off hand!)
Whilst i read alot about people struggling with money, im looking forward (maybe) to having more money what with paying the creditors at least 80% of my income pre IVA (if im accepted obviously)
anyway sorry im ranting on a bit but just wanted to talk about it!
please all hope wish and prey! preferred method applies! [;)]
Thanks Vic74
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:46 pm
by debbiw
good luck Vic74 - you will be feeling fantastic this time tomorrow, so don't worry, we are all here for you.. Try not to worry and just have a stiff drink, that will sort you out![:D][:D]
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 6:14 pm
by Robbiecat
I have spent the last year stressing about finances, and when it wasn't a cut and dried case for my IVA approval on Monday, I looked at the worst case senario and on Monday night finally had the courage to tell my mum I was possibly looking at bankruptcy. Her reaction was not what I expected.
She basically took the approach that a) I hadn't commited murder, b) I hadn't done something criminal and c) I wasn't pregnant (long story, with humourous undertones relating to my choice of type of children - furry ones) so anything else she could deal with because she loved me.
What I'm trying to say, is that even in the worst case senario (i.e. BR) you will be OK. Try to have the faith and the outcome really will be guided by your IP and the Gods. You can do no more and you have made the big step by applying for an IVA.

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I'll guess none of that will stop you worrying though! ;o)
Good luck. I have 5 resident felines sending good luck purrs for all 3 of you and my good luck wishes too.
RC
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 7:18 pm
by Soulgrowth
Good luck to all three of you. I had my creditors meeting on a Thurday ... Thursday is a lucky day (it's ruled by the planet Jupiter!)
And I would like to agree with Robbiecat's message ... there is always a solution ... so don't worry and we will all be rooting for you folks and keeping fingers, toes ... indeed everything crossed [:)]
Debbie
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 7:22 pm
by e.h
Just wanted to wish all three of you good luck for tomorrow. I will keep my fingers crossed for all of you. The only way to deal with the anxiety of waiting is to keep yourself busy and try not to clock watch.
Keep us posted of the outcomes and all the best of luck.
Regards
Liz
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 7:29 pm
by Shining
Good luck to all 3 of you from me too, keep busy and let us know a.s.a.p
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 8:14 pm
by emma_t
All fingers and toes will be crossed tommorrow - please post results and lets hope for the treable[:D]
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 8:29 pm
by Frankie
Thank you all for your good luck's cause i need it.
All i'm thinking about right now is what if?
1)They want to increase payment!
2)They say NO!
3)They want Modifications
I'm going to have a good stiff drink tonight and hopefully a celebrations drink tomorrow night.
Good Luck vic74 and mikey.
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 8:36 pm
by angela18
Good luck everyone, hope all goes well!!
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:16 pm
by aguise
Best wishes to all for tomorrow from me.
Ang
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:23 pm
by Skippy
Good luck to all three of you!
Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 10:03 pm
by MelanieGiles
Good luck Vic
(From the resident Derby County supporter - perhaps the only one!!)
Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:13 am
by TREES57
Good luck to all three of you,let us know the outcomes, will be checking in regularly today xxxx
Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:31 am
by anfieldbabe
robbiecat are you goin thru bankruptcy hun or thinkin about it