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Mrsl

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Post by Mrsl » Mon Jul 14, 2014 12:21 am
I know exactly how you feel and sympathise wholly. when kids are coming home with letters for school trips the latest for £200, how at 11 years old can I expect my son to understand when he will be the only one not going????
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Post by ringlet345 » Mon Jul 14, 2014 1:19 am
I know how you feel. Been with an IVA with the Debt Support Centre for over a year, and before that was under a Debt Management firm. Both my husband and myself work 5 days a week, and left with nothing once all the bills are paid. Keep trying to think positive that it will all be worth it, but sometimes it hard to think of it ever coming to an end.
 
 

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Post by LeFran » Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:22 am
Thanks for replies.
 
 

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Post by Struzzo39 » Wed Jul 16, 2014 7:41 am
MrsL I can sympathise Our son is 13 and has just come home from school offering a choice of 5 trips ranging from £400 - £1600 each :(
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Post by bridgey » Wed Jul 16, 2014 1:20 pm
Just about to enter the 2nd year and can epathise with the OP.

We're not finding it as difficult, financially or emotionally, as I had expected.

As someone mentioned above, holiday is time off together as a family. Going out to the beach or Forest with a picknick and spending time together.

We have this week booked a holiday.... a £9.50 pp Sun holiday to Butlins Bognor. For 3 of us it came to £40 for 4 nights... absolute bargain... look it up yourself

Hang in there :)
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Post by wiggle1 » Wed Jul 16, 2014 8:30 pm
Schools are not allowed to discriminate against pupils due to financial hardship. Have a word with their teachers or the head and they should work something out so that your children don't miss out on school trips.
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Post by MelanieGiles » Wed Jul 16, 2014 9:35 pm
Good advice there from wiggle1, who is professionally qualified to know the score on that point.

LeFran - how long have you been in your IVA, as bankruptcy is still an option you can consider if you genuinely feel it would be a better option.
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