I'm sorry that you've had problems Douglass. I'm not sure whether you're paying into your IPA yet, but if you are, don't forget that you can ask the OR to reassess your payments if you're struggling.
Please don't feel guilty about your creditors - you have had a really rotten time but you have faced up to things. I seem to remember that Northern Rock were one of your creditors, which made an IVA impossible so you did the best thing to let you move on with your life.
Declaring yourself bankrupt isn't easy (despite what some people think!) and I still panic about things even now.
I'm getting there - I had an accident in my car last week (the lamp post jumped out at me!) and I've had to postpone my dentist appointment to pay the excess. It was another thing that made me realise that when the money's gone it's gone and I've got no credit card to fall back on! I've got 11 weeks to go until I'm discharged and to be honest it's gone fairly quickly.
I hope things get better for you, and please keep posting, even if you only want a good rant about things. We're all here for you, and if I can help you in any way you know I will.
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