A good insolvency practitioner - or debt advisor - will outline all of the options for you, including the advantages, disadvantages and implications of each one - leaving you to make the decision as to what is best for you. So rather than suggesting to you what is the right way forward, I'm going to give you just a few points to bear in mind.
In bankruptcy, your equity in the property will vest in a Trustee, who will want to realise this for the benefit of creditors. You will therefore need to find someone to come up with the money if you want to stay in the property.
You would appear to have disposable income of approximately £850 when your partner is off on maternity leave, but I am not sure if you have taken into consideration the additional costs that the baby will bring, so this could be reduced. If the figure is correct, and I believe from another post that you owe £47k, a DMP will take you 55 months to pay off if creditors are to stop charging you interest (this is not certain) and you do not pay fees to the DMP company. If you do pay fees, then the period of repayment will be longer.
Under IVA and to a certain extent bankruptcy proceedings, your expenditure will be carefully scrutinised, and there is no way that you will be allowed £500 for housekeeping and £200 for entertainment. (I am assuming that this is your first child??) There is less scrutiny of expenditure under a DMP - if you choose one of the fee paying companies to manage it for you. I understand that Payplan and the CCCS (non-fee paying companies) do operate fairly frugal expenditure allowances.
Under bankruptcy proceedings you will be required to make payments for a three year period of between 50% and 70% of your disposable income. In an IVA you will pay for five years, and are likely to have to remortgage your property at the end to raise additional money from the equity. The timescale for a DMP is uncertain, given that you have no control over creditors continuing to charge interest.
Which way do you feel is the most appropriate for you now?
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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