Hi guys, this is my 1st post here, having browsed for a few days, I am writing as i really don't know what to do at the moment.
My story
Myself and my soon to be ex wife entered into an IVA in October 2005, mainly due to the fact she had accrued approx £27,000 of unsecured debt, my debt was about £12,000, but at the time as she was getting letters from debt companies etc etc, i was scared that they would come and take away all of our stuff, so we entered into it, she was out of work at the time and I was a student nurse, and our original arrangement was to pay £250 per month until March 2007, where i would be 'hopefully' employed asa qualified nurse. I agreed to have the money come out of my bank account, and she would pay in whatever she could
However in 2006 we split, mainly due to the financial aspect of things, however she continued to pay in as much as she could toward the £250. In 2007 i qualified as a Nurse, however because the only job i could get was based in London, i moved away from where I used to live, and as the job was a bit better than what i would have been receiving back home, the payments went up to £300, which was fine by me, however, in mid 2007, she stopped making payments to me, and after much shouting from me she declared that she was going to go bankrupt, which left me paying £300 a month into my own IVA (i must say it was at this point i found out that it wasn't a joint IVA, but 2 seperate ones), this carried on without a hitch until December 2008, when the business i worked at was closed.
In January 2009, i received my final payslip (which was a months pay minus tax) and sent them off to my IVA company, with a letter explaining that I had now lost my job. Didn't get my payslips back but thought nothing of it, and continued to pay out the £300 a month, last month i received a Notice of Breach letter stating that they hadn't received my payslips and had 30 days to provide the information, to which i spoke with the new advisor i had been allocated and said i would get the payslips that they required as well as proof that I am in receipt of benefits and also asking them how much I owed them.
I received an email from them on the 27th, saying i owe them £5100 (and a £300 payment came out the next day), so as of the time of writing i owe £4800.
The problem i have is, I just now feel i cannot afford to continue paying into the IVA anymore, I have worked out that with my outgoings, next month would be the last time that a payment would go through before me going overdrawn and incurring a bank charge. I am trying to gather a small amount of money by selling off stuff i have accrued over the years (nothing of any great value, mainly ebaying bits and bobs of clutter)
The only bright spot is the fact i've been offered a position of work, however it's paying less than my outgoings, not including the IVA in the short term, so I'm going to be worse off in the short term, but with the bright spot of a possible pay rise to match what i was earning before I lost my job.
So what am I asking? Well, should i just give up the ghost on the IVA (as even with reduced payments, i'll still be going under) and go bankrupt (my girlfriend is adamant that I don't do this because of the stigma), also having read up on it, there is a cost of £500 attached to going bankrupt, which i obviously don't have, so am really worried about being able to go bankrupt.
I am not sleeping over this and I really don't know which way is going to be the best way forward for me, so any help/advice would be greatly appreciated.
Many thanks
Liam
IVA to end Dec 2010