Melanie,my partner definitely didn't sign anything to that effect at the start of my IVA.
She realises and accepts that I will have to make every effort to raise the 85% of my equity in the house at the end of year 4. We have equal 50% shares in the house,but she put £30k in at the start for deposit,which is mentioned in my IVA.
So as I understand it my equity is half the overall equity after her 30k has been taken off.....is this correct?
To be honest,as well as struggling to make the payments because of lack of work,the other reason we are excploring the possibility of trying to clear the IVA with a F&F is the strain it is having on our relationship.
She suffers from Bi-Polar,and gets very paniced and stressed about money.She earns more than I do,and is getting very resentful about having to pay her excess money to clear my debts,which I had before we met.
She has recently returned to work after a long time off sick following a Bi-polar episode after the death of her father. Our worry is that the extra money stress will tip her over the edge again,causing her once again to have a long period of sick leave, which would then have to be unpaid.In that case we would have to sell the house and go our seperate ways,with me presumably having to go bankrupt.
It appears to us that if we can raise the money for a F&F that would remove a lot of the stress for her.
Any thoughts would be gratefully recieved.