all upset right now

[Maz]

Hi Lily, I hope you will be OK, There are plenty of people out here thinking of you, I hope your woes will pass quickly, Please be brave whatever, you are a stong person.

Maz x

[lily]

Hi guys

I am Ok now, spleen needed venting, I just dont know why. I lost someone recently and they helped me, I needed the help but I didnt want to lose the person.

I hope this makes sense.

I really appreciate every one of you for responding, it means so much to me. I guess I just have to move on now.

Thanks again guys, you are all priceless.

lily

[thebear29uk]

Hi Lily

Having met you I sensed an inner strength in you that will keep you sane on this long journey. As you know the forum is there for all of us, be it for advice, assistance or to let off steam. I know you would prefer things the opposite way round but you will move on in your own time.

Best Wishes

Dave

[Soulgrowth]

It's called 'sacrifice' Lily ... and the definition of 'sacrifice' is ... 'giving something up for something better'

Debbie

People Come Into Your Life For A Reason, A Season Or A Lifetime
Unknown Author

When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON. . .
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part,
or at an inconvenient time, this person will say
or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON....
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons
: things you must build upon in order to have
a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.



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www.soulgrowth.co.uk

[lily]

Thanks Dave

I do have my four babies to keep me occupied right now (every four hours) and I just adore them, I did give myself a good kick up the ass this morning to keep going and not to start looking back.

lily

[lily]

That is lovely soulgrowth, really lovely.

Thanks. It was my mother.

lily

[Lisa2009]

Lily im sure your mom will be smiling down on you right now and she will be very proud of you. You are a wonderful strong person and you care so much about people. You take care of them babies they are so lucky to have you caring for them and they will show you so much love. You realy do deserve that.

Hugs
mrs skint

[Sadsack]

Lily

Just wanted to send you big hugs and kind thoughts. As Mish says, one step at a time - thats all it takes. It may take longer, but you will get there in the end.

Look after yourself and your family.

Sue

Ho Hum! Think I'll bang my drum!

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http://sadsack.blogs.iva.co.uk/

[Soulgrowth]

I'd like to share this with you Lily ... it often brings me comfort.

Debbie


Your mother is always with you.
She’s the whisper of the leaves
As you walk down the street.
She’s the smell of bleach
In your freshly laundered socks.
She’s the cool hand on your brow
When you’re not well.
Your mother lives inside your laughter.
She’s crystallized in every tear drop.
She’s the place you came from,
Your first home.
She’s the map you follow
With every step you take.
She’s your first love
And your first heartbreak …
And nothing on earth can separate you.


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www.soulgrowth.co.uk

[j_d]

Hi Lily
Can't even start to imagine how you feel but just wanted to say i am thinking of you, you give so much to others and your such a wonderful person, take care of them babies and think of yourself a little
luv julie

[sps]

Hi Lily
When I first joined the forum it was not long after you had lost your mum and I can remember you being so supportive of others with all you were going through. Your mum will always be with you - I lost mine 12 years ago,she was only 56, and this morning whilst walking the dog it really p**d me off that it was such a lovely day and she wasn't here to see it and my girls are all grown now and she has missed so much - sorry to waffle on but I really hope you have some happiness coming your way, you deserve it.
Sue

[Skippy]

I know how you feel SPS - I lost my dad 8 1/2 years ago and every now and then I feel cheated that he's not here for me to chat to him about the football or Formula 1. The pain sort of dulls, but it's always there.

I do believe that the people we have lost are looking over us though - they never leave us.

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is the present - a gift to make the most of.

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[lily]

Thanks everyone is so kind, soulgrowth, it made my blub, but in a good way.

My mother had a saying, You are measured by how much you care about others around you. If I have helped anyone here, it is because of her. She had a heart as big as a house and everyone was welcome. I have missed her terribly so far this year but I will always be grateful and treasure all she gave, she will be at peace when I am free.

Thanks everyone

lily

[kerrie2]

Hi lily,
just wanted to say that we are all thinking of you right now,you give so much advise to others,now is time to think about yourself and be strong
take care
kerrie2735
xxxxxxxx and hugs too

kerrie kirkham

[BrassicLintus]

Lily, heartfelt hugs to you. I couldn't have got through all this without your kind words and advice. You do so much for so many people on here, so all I can say is that your mum must have been one heck of a good lady - and you are such a credit to her. God bless.

Sam x