hi catullus
firstly would like to apologise if you thought i was having a go, i certainly was not, i have re read everything and your bio and can see very clearly where you are coming from, and i am sure everyone will welcome your input.
what i was trying to get across last night was, a lot of posters on here have been spied on by their IP's and then e-mailed or letters sent and also that the creditors regularly monitor this site, and i just wanted you to be aware that some posters are wary of posting too much, of course i understand why you don't want to identify yourself and admire you for coming on and giving your advice and opinions in regards to IP's and i am sure that we can learn a lot from you as you can learn from the posters off this forum.
in my own experience my ip never wanted speak to me, i had to go through several people in different teams the further i went up the ladder, i asked several times to speak to him, even sent a letter registered to him asking him to contact me re my iva proposal but he never bothered at all, my face to face was with someone from the office who i never heard off or saw again, the whole process was very confusing and to be honest if i hadn't found the forum i truly wouldn't have understood what an iva was, i felt they frightened me into it as they said i only had 2 options, iva or BR of course scared didn't understand the implications of BR also i opted for what i thought was the best solution, then the fun started with the figures.
i can understand that there will be people also who think they can try and work the system and hide things from the IP which must cause a lot of confusion for the ip.
you will get a good response and others who will share their journey with you good or bad.
kerri
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http://scaredkez.blogs.iva.co.uk/