Oi oi, me again, MG gave me some good advice when i last posted on the other forum. Without jumping any guns, i am looking forward to the new year as potentially 1 of a 2. I mean a pair, or in laymans terms, with a bloke.The feelings between the two of us are becoming a bit scary, though we talk it through and get on with snogging the whole time. I am being cared for and he is happy as a pig in pooh, doing such. I am invited over to his after work, and when i arrive he's done me dinner. We gym together, make plans to visit places, go to the rugby, watch tons of movies and jabber on with each other for hours. We get on and it's great. He's my soul food, and after spending time together everything and everyone benefits from it. Yummmer, as for the IVA changes and stuff, all in hand. My happy is more important than anything. That should make you all vomit nicely ha ha ha , sorry.