And sooooooooooo.

[quark2008]

Oh god, update......... I get a text and i nearly faint.No seriously i had to hold on to the b***** wardrobe. A plain and simple i miss you. b***** it, i think this might be the part where i get to see what all the fuss is about. This is well unexpected just now, enough faffing, i'm going out the fireworks.

[angela18]

ooh, sounds like you found yourself a good un.. hold onto him.. it doesn't come round like that very often!! bet you have a Happy Christmas

[pixie]

sounds like you've got your own fireworks going on[:D] Congratulations [:)]

[quark2008]

I've been officially been asked to the bloke for my bloke !!!!

[quark2008]

I'm not ready for this, arghhhhhh, i'm shaking like a jelly.

[moretolife]

sorry to be ignorant quark...but your post...

"been asked to the bloke for my bloke"

what does it mean???

[quark2008]

been asked to go steady with my bloke

[moretolife]

aahhhh..must be a local expression...all is revealed...good for you...scary isnt it....but fab..i have been with my hubby for almost 36 years and he can still make my knees go all weak.!!!

[quark2008]

That's gorgeous MTL. Yes it is really scary, it just a couple of months since we met and I guess I'm feeling a bit swept of my feet and perhaps a little rushed. Right now i'm actually missing him quite a lot.This morning the first text message i get is i miss you one. Making a cup of coffee was quite a challenge after that i can tell you. I haven't experienced this feeling before, i've had a long term relationship of 8 years sure, but it was more like business than anything emotionally connecting. When we are together it's very intense and romantic, nervous and fumbly. It's quite beautiful really. I feel like a proper bloke, i can't explain it, i suppose being strong enough to sling him over my shoulder and prat around the house with him has something to do with that !!! Like a caveman hahahaha. Of course all the girls are jealous at work, in a nice way. And like i've said they get to share the best of me working with them because i'm all full of lovely stuff. Gorrrrrrrrrrrrrrgeusssss

[kallis3]

Quark, that's so nice.

I've forgotten what that feeling is!!!!!!! Me and hubby get on well though, we're best mates before anything else, but it has been a long time since he made me go weak at the knees!

[quark2008]

It really is Jan, I miss him, god, stupidly, the thought of dealing with IVA and moving next year scares me not one jot, nothing seems to be a problem right now, because i have someone who fancies the pants off me, says so, and stuff. oh it really is vomitus ha ha ha !!!!!!

[kallis3]

I am really happy for you Quark,I think it's lovely that you have someone you can feel this way about and who feels the same about you.[:)]

[chardonnay]

Oh Quark,
Well done you. I've been there, seen it, don it and got the t-shirt.
You sound so happy it's fantastic...enjoy that feeling and go with the flow.
Blimey I'm glowing thinking of you!! Being in love is amazing...look at my storey, it can and does happen. Gary (my other half) has fallen for me IVA and all which is amazing. Grasp happiness with both hands and have fun - I'm soooo pleased for you. Let us know whst happens.
Lots of love,
Chardonnay x

[angela18]

ooh quark fom your very first post on here.. you're like a difeent bloke!! really pleased for you!!

[quark2008]

Thank you Angela, yes i do feel like a different man altogether just now.I think a lot of you have shared a very up and down time, over the last however many months.I may have just landed myself the most wonderful man, friend, and somebody i am beginning to trust and respect very much, actually me. And i also have someone equally as wonderful to share that with now. It's all good.