are my employers contacted?

[scaredkez]

i agree hitman a problem shared is a problem halved there is no way i could have hidden this from my husband he would never have forgiven me if i thought i didn't trust or love him enough to disclose i was suffering a problem.
take all the advice you can from experts and those who to have been through this process, there is 2 sides to the fence remeber and we are all giving valuable input from both, as lily says it is an individual thing but the more knowledge and information you receive will arm you with the questions you need to ask when the time comes and you decide what you are going to do.
good luck
kerri

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[hitman]

Thank-You all for your input and time, I will tell my husband as dealing with it on my own would be a nightmare. It is really kind of you all to give your time and experiences.

[freelili]

good luck hitman you are not alone in this

LILY

[Skippy]

Good luck Hitman. I couldn't have done any of this without my partner's support. I told my mum yesterday that I will probably be going bankrupt - I was so worried about it I felt physically sick, but she was great about it. When you tell your partner I think you'll be surprised at how understanding he'll be.

Good luck x

Onwards and upwards!!!
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