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Post by MelanieGiles » Sun Apr 15, 2007 9:32 pm
Great advice Lily!

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Post by rjm » Mon Apr 16, 2007 11:35 am
I do understand what you are saying Lily, and I am grateful for the advice. I owe to more than I creditor... 8 to be honest, and just paying the minimum to each leaves me broke. With the bank, I only have one creditor, and one payment. I know that the level of debt will increase as they charge interest etc., but it will save me from declaring BR
 
 

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Post by tracy.h » Mon Apr 16, 2007 3:58 pm
Hi rjm
I would totaly agree with what the others have said,i have consolidated time and again,and thats the main reason i have so much debt.
I no short term it seems a good idea,but for how long?I think what Lily and Dave are saying makes a lot of sense,if you choose to take advise given then thats your perogative,but think of the long term effect more borrowing will have on you,and how you will feel if you cant make payments on this new credit.I know it is hard when there seems no way out of your situation,i really do,thats why im now sorting my own debts out,i would just hate to see you in a worse situation financaily than you are now,why not wait and see if you get this job befor you make any decisions,at least you will no what you can afford,and then if its financaiy viable you can try and sort out a more permenant way of dealing with your excisting creditors,rather than add another creditor to the list,i really hope you will make the right decision and will start to feel better in yourself,remember we are all here to support you good luck and please take care
 
 

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Post by Skippy » Mon Apr 16, 2007 8:17 pm
Hi rjm, I can't help agreeing with the other posters here. I feel you are taking a big risk by taking on further borrowing in your situation. I took out loan after loan to try and consolidate my debts, but this will only work if you are really disciplined and cut up ALL your credit cards and just pay off your consolidation loan. Please think carefully as to whether you are able to do that before making any decisions. Also, I do wonder whether the bank have your interests at heart, or their own. You owe approximately £18k, and the loan is £15k, so you are still going to have to pay debts other than your consolidation loan. If you are certain that the loan is the way forward for you, please also think about your sister - if for some reason you cannot make the payments she will be liable - do you really want to put her in that situation?

I'm sorry if I sound as if I am lecturing you, but I am worried about you. Good luck for the future.

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Post by scaredkez » Tue Apr 17, 2007 12:08 am
all i can say is good advice from skippy don't take any more loans out when you are to deep as is it will only get worse
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