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If you can bear it at the moment (been reading all of your posts and am so sorry about your circumstances) I suggest you march down to your local Council offices and ask to speak to someone in authority about this unpaid debt (if indeed there is one!).
I feel that you will receive a sympathetic ear, and if you do owe them money you can come to some arrangement with them. By doing it this way, they can see that you are upset but committed to dealing with your responsibilities.
If things do get so on top of you that you cannot cope, you may wish to consider bankruptcy proceedings. I know that you are due to inherit shortly, but be aware that you can also do an IVA after bankruptcy or get the bankruptcy annulled if there is a chance you can pay all of your debts in full. Although there is a bit of pain involved with the bankruptcy procedure, this will stop creditors contantly hounding you. I can give more details on this if you are interested.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
View my IVA blog at:
http://melaniegiles.blogs.iva.co.uk