No - it is voluntary surrendering the asset to the lender on the basis of unaffordability. But when it comes to retaining dignity, you sometimes need to let the head rule the heart and decide exactly where you want to be, and how best you can get there in terms of dealing with your debt.
You are very highly geared in terms of your secured lending, and are now unable to meet your unsecured creditor repayments. This situation will only get worse unless you do something proactive to change things. The first step I would have thought is sensible, is to research the local rental market to see what you would have to pay for a rented propety, and then see how this would affect your finances.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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