Well I know its late, but I didnt find out until 8pm, but could not post as I had company.
Got home this evening to find a letter from the OR. Three and a half months (!) after going BR, we are going to be discharged! So thats it, over with, finished. Seems bizarre. We kept our home, car, sky+, bank account, mobile contract......everything. And now its over after 15 weeks. I'm sure the repurcussions will emerge at some point, but like everything in life, there are solutions.
Anyway the whole point of this thread is to thank everyone for nothing but continued support. I am now a single mummmy but life could not be better and ex and I are best friends. You guys have made everything so much easier, but in particular............
MELANIE GILES!
You changed my life Melanie and helped me more than you will ever know. Cant wait to meet you en-route to Cape Town next year. Please email me your flight details [;)]