Taking an average of £6k, that will only give you an extra £250 per month (assuming he is a 40% taxpayer), so you could propose an IVA based upon £500 per month with an equity release at the end, but you will be paying 100p in the £ and the IP's costs.
The IP's costs, will be lower than your redemption penalty however, and you could therefore remortgage to offer a full and final settlement when you are out of that tie in period, or sell your investments as they mature. You are therefore looking at paying over £70k over five years, to meet £60k of liabilities, and creditors may also ask for statutory interest at 8% per annum.
You need to try and stop all of the negative feelings that are going through your mind, and try and focus on finding a solution to put your finances in order for the future. It seems that either an IVA or Debt Management programme is a sensible solution - with a debt management programme you have to get every creditor to agree to your offer, whereas under an IVA there is a 75% acceptance criteria.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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